Wifey and I stuck for romantic night and love making. Have Any proposals?

[hyjacked]

Wifey and I are very best friends and have been for the near 9 yrs. together.

On our time alone we both want to stay in our home alone and not be around people as we deal with people and their probs everyday. We do enjoy our home and each others company about more than anything anyway. We use to go out alot but we both rather not to much anymore.

 

Well last night we were talking after a steamy session. We both came up with the same est. that we have had sex together over a couple thousand times based on our average every week.

 

We of course do the candle/bath nights, gifts, music, not to mention the most important-how she makes a hot outfit hot hot hot!

 

I can't call it a slump but maybe a lull with us both wondering what can we do from here to keep the ball rolling and not let boredom set in.

[portableversion]

Don't do anything for awhile. I mean, if you gorge at the same buffet for 9 years, you'll get tired of the food eventually. So, don't eat! You'll get hungry again.

[quankanne]

sounds like y'all have a really good handle on the visual/audio stimulatory stuff, so maybe going tactile would be an interesting change. I've got to admit, it makes me wild when my husband agrees to play "touch" with me. Not the obvious areas (genitalia) but other parts of our bodies, like behind the knee or on the side of a rib cage or back of an ear. Kissing is good, but so is plain old touching, rubbing or feather-light flickering touches. The nice part about going tactile is that you can incorporate a lot of different "tools" -- food, feathers, bubbles, liquids, warm melty chocolate sauce (touch AND taste put to work here!), melting ice cubes, etc. One friend told me that he and his girlfriend added ice cream to their repertoire one night, and although he didn't go into detail, he DID say that he's never looked at cookies and cream the same way ever again!

 

remember, next to your brain, your skin is your biggest sexual organ, but it's often overlooked.

[hyjacked]

Hey Quan thats a very good reminder. I can recall a few yrs ago we toyed with that but I guess forgotten about.

 

And Portableversion...well...you may have a point but once a hog always a hog. I guess that would make me a wife hog

[JayKay]

I think candles are nice....but it's true, that same old same old every night gets, well, old!

 

I personally have never found the eating-food-off-of-someone very enjoyable. I think it's because I tried a sushi thing with an ex one night and well....the wasabi sauce ended up in a very bad place.

 

AHEM! Anyhow...

 

I think porn is fun. As a woman though, I am much more stimulated by READING erotic literature while my BF likes LOOKING at erotic stuff. I guess that's the difference in how men and woman are wired up. But I know if I read something steamy for an hour or so, I've got to go find my man to take care of me afterwards!

 

If your lady likes to write, maybe she could take a crack at writing some erotic stuff for you to read.

 

Not all women like looking at porn on websites, so you'll have to tread carefully there.

 

I actually enjoy going to strip bars with my BF. I find it a very sexy atmosphere. Again, some women like that kind of thing and some don't

 

I also think doing it outside is very sexy. It feels very animalistic. Just make sure you're not somewhere public!

[hyjacked]

Once in a while wifey will turn on the Playboy channel and when she does odds are there is going to be a wild ride. Tickles me... she turns the volume down, she doesn't care for listening to others do their thing.

 

Thanks JK