he feels like my toy ...

[me]

My bf keeps complaining that he is just a toy for me & that i'm going to find somebody better than him when I want to get serious with someone ...

 

It is partially true - I can't see myself together with him in future (like married, etc.) but I really do want to be with him now, possibly in future (but i don't even want to decide that now, too far off) ... we have fun. we're both young; i dont see why he's so damn worried about my seriousness, or ratehr lack of it. it really bothers him that I dont show any support when he mentions living together. what does it matter, we're both in college, and the soonest we might have the chance to live together is 4-5 years from now.

 

Please advise.

 

thanks you in advance.

[Ashesmum]

Sounds like your bf is thinking of the future. He knows he wants a future with you. He wants you in his life down the road, but if you don't then you should tell him. You don't have to think about marriage right now. Tell him you are comfy with where the relationship is right now. But tell hi the true feelings you feel for the future too. There's no since leading him on thinking there's a future for sure whe there isn't one. Just be true to him and tell him you aren't in a hurry. See what he says. Good luck

My bf keeps complaining that he is just a toy for me & that i'm going to find somebody better than him when I want to get serious with someone ... It is partially true - I can't see myself together with him in future (like married, etc.) but I really do want to be with him now, possibly in future (but i don't even want to decide that now, too far off) ... we have fun. we're both young; i dont see why he's so damn worried about my seriousness, or ratehr lack of it. it really bothers him that I dont show any support when he mentions living together. what does it matter, we're both in college, and the soonest we might have the chance to live together is 4-5 years from now. Please advise. thanks you in advance.