Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 23, 2019 Author Share Posted October 23, 2019 If he wont go through the courts she could Link to post Share on other sites
Redhead14 Posted October 23, 2019 Share Posted October 23, 2019 I missed one.... Because he thinks she will stop him seeing the children? He doesn't give a crap about seeing those kids. If he gave a crap, he wouldn't be afraid of going to court to FIGHT for that right and he'd be taking care of his fiduciary responsibilities for them. He'd be working two jobs if that's what it takes. No self-respecting man would continue to allow the mother and grandmother of his children to pay for and take care of those kids on a regular basis. Has she taken him to court for child support payments? If not, why not? If he's afraid of anything, he's probably afraid of that. If he's negging on his court ordered child support payments, you will be visiting him in jail at some point. This guy is maintaining contact with her beyond his obligations because HE WANTS TO. I guess you feel like he is so spineless and short on balls as to continue doing things he doesn't want to do. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted October 23, 2019 Share Posted October 23, 2019 A man like what? We are being patient and repeating ourselves several times here but YOU also have to do YOUR part and read back and figure out what people mean. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 23, 2019 Author Share Posted October 23, 2019 Has she taken him to court for child support payments? If not, why not? If he's afraid of anything, he's probably afraid of that. If he's negging on his court ordered child support payments, you will be visiting him in jail at some point. No i dont think she has. I dont know why Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 23, 2019 Author Share Posted October 23, 2019 We are being patient and repeating ourselves several times here but YOU also have to do YOUR part and read back and figure out what people mean. I dont know what you mean? A man that wants to be friends with his ex? Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted October 23, 2019 Share Posted October 23, 2019 I am talking about you not paying attention to our posts and you ask questions that the answer is right there 2 posts above. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Redhead14 Posted October 23, 2019 Share Posted October 23, 2019 I dont know what you mean? A man that wants to be friends with his ex? This guy is not a good man/person. Low life, scumbag, user and slacker come to mind. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 23, 2019 Author Share Posted October 23, 2019 I know you were referring to the list of questions but in just not sure what kind of man your saying he would be if all of those things were true Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted October 23, 2019 Share Posted October 23, 2019 A man like what? A deadbeat who takes money from his children's mother; who is under employed & who prioritizes her over you. Even in the unlikely event he's not having sex with her don't you see that they are still too close? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 23, 2019 Author Share Posted October 23, 2019 I do yes. I cant see how they can be having sex though. Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted October 23, 2019 Share Posted October 23, 2019 I cant see how they can be having sex though. Use your imagination. They spend entire days together, evenings, they go visit his parents together, for all you know the grand parents babysit and they get away. The children are still babies, they nap 2 times a day. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted October 23, 2019 Share Posted October 23, 2019 You see this guy 2 nights a week, he has 5 other nights you don't know what he does, sure he works but what makes you think he doesn't head to her place after work. He's a liar, he lies to her, he lies to his employer, he lies to you. Why is it so hard for you to believe that he's also lying to you on his whereabouts. He does it all the time to others!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted October 23, 2019 Share Posted October 23, 2019 I do yes. I cant see how they can be having sex though. that's because you refuse to... just like you refused yesterday to ask him point blank all these questions you've been coming up with here to maintain your refusal to know information you need to know. They are having sex. I'll bet your retirement on it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 23, 2019 Author Share Posted October 23, 2019 You see this guy 2 nights a week, he has 5 other nights you don't know what he does, sure he works but what makes you think he doesn't head to her place after work. He's a liar, he lies to her, he lies to his employer, he lies to you. Why is it so hard for you to believe that he's also lying to you on his whereabouts. He does it all the time to others!! Use your imagination. They spend entire days together, evenings, they go visit his parents together, for all you know the grand parents babysit and they get away. The children are still babies, they nap 2 times a day. They are having sex. I'll bet your retirement on it. They only go out to public places. And i go to his most evenings because i drive him home when we finish work. I dont always stay over though Link to post Share on other sites
Redhead14 Posted October 23, 2019 Share Posted October 23, 2019 And i go to his most evenings because i drive him home when we finish work. He doesn't have a car either? God almighty. He's using you as a chauffeur and for sex. Beautiful. This guy is a scum sucking bottom feeder -- parasite. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted October 23, 2019 Share Posted October 23, 2019 On top of that you act as a taxi to him I think I said everything I could say in this thread. I am just repeating myself over and over. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 23, 2019 Author Share Posted October 23, 2019 No he doesnt drive. He doesnt have a license. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted October 23, 2019 Share Posted October 23, 2019 Seriously WHY do you like him / want to be with him? What are you getting out of this? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Redhead14 Posted October 23, 2019 Share Posted October 23, 2019 I've tried to bow out of this thread because it's a waste of time but I can't. It's kinda like a train wreck - you gotta look no matter how sad or tragic it is. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Redhead14 Posted October 23, 2019 Share Posted October 23, 2019 Seriously WHY do you like him / want to be with him? What are you getting out of this? He must be some delicious piece of arm candy because he sure doesn't have anything else going for him. LOL 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 23, 2019 Author Share Posted October 23, 2019 Seriously WHY do you like him / want to be with him? What are you getting out of this? I dont know why i like him. I just do Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted October 23, 2019 Share Posted October 23, 2019 He must be some delicious piece of arm candy because he sure doesn't have anything else going for him. LOL Nope! she said he is just a regular guy not particularly good looking. Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted October 23, 2019 Share Posted October 23, 2019 I dont know why i like him. I just do That is called emotional dependency. When you cannot list the qualities of a person and tell why you love them it's because you don't love them, you're just filling a void. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 23, 2019 Author Share Posted October 23, 2019 Ok. I like him because... he makes me laugh, he puts spending time with me above anything else, he always checks up to make sure im ok, spending time texting me when we arent together. Even when hes with her Link to post Share on other sites
Redhead14 Posted October 23, 2019 Share Posted October 23, 2019 Ok. I like him because... he makes me laugh, he puts spending time with me above anything else, he always checks up to make sure im ok. He makes me laugh too because he is a joke of a man. He spends time with you above anything else 2 days a week, while doing whatever/whoever he wants for the other 5 days, except texting his ex and going over there and using you as his chauffeur and he checks up to make sure you're OK? Paleeze. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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