Londy Posted October 18, 2019 Share Posted October 18, 2019 Not understanding why there's such a big deal with cold approaches. They're just people no different from you and me. You strike up a conversation and then say hey you seem really nice how about I take you out some time? What's the worst that can happen? And yes when I was single I did this quite often. Link to post Share on other sites
SumGuy Posted October 18, 2019 Share Posted October 18, 2019 .. Haven't you been to events and parties where you see young people alone and they're unable to mingle? That's because they don't feel comfortable approaching someone without being introduced. If you're hosting, you'd help by introducing them. But often people are on their own at public events. Oh so true, even at dance clubs...groups of guys and groups of girls nary the two should meet. What are a group of 40 and 50 year olds doing at a dance club you say? Well we like to dance to, not like dance hall type music doesn't have roots from decades ago, also know the owner...ahhh the perks of age Notice I said young people :-) Old people don't care, they talk to anybody. As I get older, the men (also older) who chat me up are pretty smooth. Also true in all my experience. Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted October 18, 2019 Share Posted October 18, 2019 Yeah funny , these days l wouldn't giva fk. Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted October 21, 2019 Share Posted October 21, 2019 (edited) But, not always that simple either and l do sympathize, there's often a complication. l was in a nursery today buying trees , been goin there a few years. There's this chick, l always get her out of 5 or 6 others there, not that l mind. but, l'm with someone anyway , she might be herself, dunno, no ring, this was also before l met my woman. last time l was in asking some stuff l realized later we were talking a few inches away face in face. l felt embarrassed later realizing we stood so close, hope l didn't do it, not that she was complaining. We've always had some thing, no doubt about it, that happens every time, yet that place is huge and today we brushed hands and wound up even closer again, tried to keep distance believe it or not remembering last time buttt. l would've asked her out in single days but she seemed a fair bit younger than me, hard to know. lately she seems older, but l'm 50s, she might be no where near, 30s, 40 max my guess. l'm not asking her out of course, l'm happy, but this weird thing with her, and today l thought l wouldn't anyway she could be 20yrs younger than me and laugh in my face. l remember single days, always some complication. So it's not always cut and dry, l mean what da ya do, ask her age first, dunno. Always something. Edited October 21, 2019 by chillii Link to post Share on other sites
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