Author Mara1573 Posted October 15, 2019 Author Share Posted October 15, 2019 (edited) If me and MM are going to be together long term then we both need to choose each other. I am not certain how we can make things worker due to our age gap. I have never been with someone 20 years my senior. I guess you can say it scares us both. I just learned MM and I were invited to a mutual's friend party. If MM is attending it will be with wife and 2 kids. And I would attending with my partner.. how awkward!!! What should I DO?? Edited October 17, 2019 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Merge and remove superfluous quote Link to post Share on other sites
Artdeco Posted October 15, 2019 Share Posted October 15, 2019 Up to you, but I’d go. That way you will see with your own eyes how they interact, as a couple and as a family. I’m not saying it’s 100% indicative of what their relationship is really like. But you’ll get a glimpse of it, and maybe seeing them together with their children will change your mind and open your eyes a bit. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mara1573 Posted October 15, 2019 Author Share Posted October 15, 2019 (edited) I think so too. I've been distant towards MM lately. He has asked me what's wrong. Edited October 17, 2019 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Link to post Share on other sites
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted October 16, 2019 Share Posted October 16, 2019 I just learned MM and I were invited to a mutual's friend party. If MM is attending it will be with wife and 2 kids. And I would attending with my partner.. how awkward!!! What should I DO?? Don't go? Or do go since you've said neither of your partners care what you do. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted October 17, 2019 Share Posted October 17, 2019 If me and MM are going to be together long term then we both need to choose each other. I am not certain how we can make things worker due to our age gap. I have never been with someone 20 years my senior. I guess you can say it scares us both. Except...he has basically already told you there isn't a future together. He will get you "in another life" was your clue he isn't planning to be with you, OP. I am not sure why you're even struggling to figure out what to do about him. He's essentially already taken himself out the game, so to speak - apart from some fun and sex. You might as well give up entertaining any notion of being together with him. He's already shut that down. You just appear not to have really understood that yet. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mara1573 Posted October 17, 2019 Author Share Posted October 17, 2019 (edited) Who said I was willing to give up what I have to be with MM. Both of our situations are complicated. I never entertained us being together or asked him. I have stopped entertaining MM in general. Edited October 17, 2019 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mara1573 Posted October 17, 2019 Author Share Posted October 17, 2019 (edited) I agree. I don't think I want to go and if I do go I'll avoid MM I’d pass on the party. Body language is bound to give you away. Edited October 17, 2019 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Link to post Share on other sites
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