Imp99 Posted October 11, 2019 Share Posted October 11, 2019 Hi, would like to seek for your insight and advice. I have went to a single networking event. I am lucky to meet a few guys I prefer to get to know better. 1.) One of the guy actually gave me his number but did not request for my number. I thought I would like to keep in contact so have contacted him. He responded to my message but did not ask me out. It is more than 2 weeks I have not heard from him after our last contact. 2.) I have a mutual match with a guy and we have exchange numbers and it has been 1.5weeks and he has not contacted me. I contacted him and he ask to meet. The meeting is great as I feel very comfortable with him and we have fluent conversation and have laughter along side with the conversation. But I never heard from him for 2 weeks. 3.) I have also a mutual match with a guy and the networking event also provided a platform for us to temporary communicate. He did not ask for my number. I have ask for his age and he gave a range. I requested again for the exact year and provide him my age as requested. He did not respond to me until the next day asking if I prefer someone a few years older only. I did not respond directly but joking ask if he is very old to mention the age. He kept quiet. I manage to contact him a few days later. He did respond to me but never ask for number. Is a bit disappointing as the organizer had told us that we have chosen each other so is a mutual match. Seems like all is just a shattered dream. What do you Think? Link to post Share on other sites
Whodatdog Posted October 11, 2019 Share Posted October 11, 2019 Shattered dream? Thats a little dramatic. You met 3 guys, there was no connection. Pthht. It happens. Keep looking until you find a mutual connection. It might take 3 more meets, or maybe 30. Im not sure Id keep on contacting guys, tho. Let them do the heavy lifting for a while. Then you know they are interested. Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted October 11, 2019 Share Posted October 11, 2019 Yeah , don't worry it's not a shattered dream , but sorry to say it does sound pretty typical , this stuff is all over the place unfortunately. But yeah all this wk and 2 wk to reply stuff isn't a good sign sorry either, if someones keen they'd usually be a lot more into it than that. Anyway, l pretty well go with whodatdoggy. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted October 11, 2019 Share Posted October 11, 2019 So the one guy is way older than he wants anyone to know. Sigh. I assume they also have other matches' numbers, so maybe they will get around to asking you out yet. Link to post Share on other sites
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