Gold Pile Posted September 30, 2005 Share Posted September 30, 2005 My threads on seeking short term relationships have prompted a number of posters respond : get a hooker I've never been in a massage place, never rented an escort, and am terrified by what I've seen walking streets. I've known several divorced men who seek out professionals. It's a hurdle they must complete before getting back out there. Guys with on the road jobs that often give in to the temptation. We all have sex drives and many of us suffer dry spells. In principle I'm not opposed to sex-4-sale, if it's conducted by non victim adults. What are your thoughts? Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 30, 2005 Share Posted September 30, 2005 In principle I'm not opposed to sex-4-sale, if it's conducted by non victim adults. Ditto. If the sex-4-sale industry was regulated, with every sex worker having to submit to STD/drug testing on a monthly basis it would be somewhat safer, I would think. You never can tell though, and I guess that makes it risky. Of course, the same is true for people who aren't in the sex industry too. Probably more so, because a person would be more likely to not use protection with someone he/she perceives to be 'clean' based on their lifestyle. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted September 30, 2005 Share Posted September 30, 2005 I would never get a hooker.. But what I did when I went thru my divorce was do the mathmatics on if it would've been cheaper to hire a hooker and a maid for the 5 years I was married.. I figured the amount of sex I had.. Which was every day 5-6 times week plus the amount of a maid service versus the amount of attorney fees + the beating I took in money that was loaned to her corporation and other money issues. It would've been cheaper by over $10,000. Think about it GP.. Since you are money driven.. Just pay for it Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted September 30, 2005 Share Posted September 30, 2005 I would never get a hooker.. I read somewhere that something like 70% of men worldwide have used the services of a prostitute at least once in their life. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr.B Posted September 30, 2005 Share Posted September 30, 2005 I am in favor of the local and community owned, state approved brothels. Smaller more diverse houses of pleasure really can offer clients new to the geographic region a little more of the local cuisine as well as offering locals top quality service- with a smile. Larger corporate establishments really lack roots in the community- can their pleasurable staff recommend a nice restaurant to the traveling businessman or can they give good directions for the quickest route back to the interstate? Stated approved brothels, weather 'mom & pop' style or nationally branded and corporate, can really give back to the community. Tax revenues can help fund local schools and individual prostitutes can help out with fundraisers - sure beats the hell out of girl scout cookies. In my book hookers are perfectly fine. While whorish women are taboo in many societies, they really are more respectable than lawyers- they both will f*** you, but only the sex workers make you want to come back! Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted September 30, 2005 Share Posted September 30, 2005 I like ti just use women for sex. I don't spend money. Link to post Share on other sites
lynnered Posted September 30, 2005 Share Posted September 30, 2005 "I've known several divorced men who seek out professionals. It's a hurdle they must complete before getting back out there" disagree with this but it all personal choice. agree with Lb as far as "regulated, with every sex worker having to submit to STD/drug testing on a monthly basis it would be somewhat safer, I would think. " i doubt they will ever get it under controll i think its degrading to women. only thing i really didnt like was U threw in "massage place",i went to school for massage thereapy,we do not give "happy endings"or any sexual /personal touch ,because of a few misconceptions some people think thats what a massage therapist does ,no thats a hooker . Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gold Pile Posted September 30, 2005 Author Share Posted September 30, 2005 : Think about it GP.. Since you are money driven.. Just pay for it Nah, The most expensive prop is the car, but I decided to get the car first for myself. (I was frugal with my wheels till now) The other props are incredibly cheap. Indeed talking the talk is free. My first GD cost me (lunch/dinner) less than $20 by the first bedding. Later a camping trip cost more, but I wanted to go camping and had lots of sex. I expect to score with the 2nd any day now, for the cost of 2 movie tickets and a couple of drinks. Maybe street trash is cheaper...but the horror of it...no way! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gold Pile Posted September 30, 2005 Author Share Posted September 30, 2005 I read somewhere that something like 70% of men worldwide have used the services of a prostitute at least once in their life. My informal observation of USA men would have been 50-60%. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Gold Pile Posted September 30, 2005 Author Share Posted September 30, 2005 "only thing i really didnt like was U threw in "massage place",i went to school for massage thereapy,we do not give "happy endings"or any sexual /personal touch ,because of a few misconceptions some people think thats what a massage therapist does ,no thats a hooker . Indeed I know the difference. I didn't create the euphamism, I just repeated it. Sorry, it must be frustrating. Link to post Share on other sites
elijahBailey Posted September 30, 2005 Share Posted September 30, 2005 My informal observation of USA men would have been 50-60%. and my informal observation of US men would be 5~6%. With casual sex so widely accepted, why bother payin' for it when there's a large pool of willing non-professional partners. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted September 30, 2005 Share Posted September 30, 2005 I have done a little research on the percentages today.. The only one I found was that 50% of the males sampled would use hookers if it was legal. Since it is not ( except in Vegas) I think you can draw the conclusion that the percentage is between 0% and 50% .. I would say 10 Oh.. And Alpha did say WorldWide Link to post Share on other sites
Outcast Posted September 30, 2005 Share Posted September 30, 2005 Yeah but 'I read somewhere' is likely in an ad for hookers or some dumb 'how to catch women just for sex' type article. Ask for a link to a reputable study. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted September 30, 2005 Share Posted September 30, 2005 and my informal observation of US men would be 5~6%. With casual sex so widely accepted, why bother payin' for it when there's a large pool of willing non-professional partners. Hey EB, if you're a good-looking dude with a good job you'll have plenty of willing partners. What about the old and fat dudes or the nerdy dudes or other men who have a hard time getting women? Very few men can get all the women they want, whenever they want. Link to post Share on other sites
slubberdegullion Posted September 30, 2005 Share Posted September 30, 2005 ...why bother payin' for it when there's a large pool of willing non-professional partners. Actually, there are a whole host of reasons why a man would utilize the services of an escort instead of a romantic partner. Check out http://www.costofsex.com. Link to post Share on other sites
elijahBailey Posted October 1, 2005 Share Posted October 1, 2005 Actually, there are a whole host of reasons why a man would utilize the services of an escort instead of a romantic partner. Check out http://www.costofsex.com. too funny, the website. But no way a guy would whip out his calculator and do his math before deciding he'd hire an escort Link to post Share on other sites
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