I keep getting rejected by girls.

[rjc149]

I will hate society as a whole because i'll be forced to watch everyone else find someone, have sex, find a girlfriend, and eventually get married

 

And go read the divorce forums on here. That should set you straight on marriage.

[chillii]

Yeah , bout it.

Edited October 19, 2019 by chillii

[SumGuy]

And go read the divorce forums on here. That should set you straight on marriage.

 

Word!

 

It can be great but not some walk in the park even when it is

[CautiouslyOptimistic]

It's pretty much over for me... I was dealt a pretty crappy hand in life, at least in regards to dating.

 

 

I'll be a bitter 30 old virgin, still in the same shoes I was at 20 years old. I will hate society as a whole because i'll be forced to watch everyone else find someone, have sex, find a girlfriend, and eventually get married, and I have to pretend that I don't care about these things. But deep down inside, I envy them all because they all had the privilege of being romantically desirable and being able to have a dating life while I didn't... They get to wake up next to someone they love, the only thing I will ever have is porn. And it's all because I was born different...

 

 

It's over... I lost.

 

You haven't' answered questions about Asperger's dating apps or what YOUR ideal physical partner looks like/acts like.

 

If you just want to mope in your pity party, though, have at it. We're not stopping you.

[Trail Blazer]

You haven't' answered questions about Asperger's dating apps or what YOUR ideal physical partner looks like/acts like.

 

If you just want to mope in your pity party, though, have at it. We're not stopping you.

 

Agreed 100 percent.

 

Come on, GG7. You need to start focusing on the things in your life you do have control over, not the things you can't.

 

You aren't the only one in the world with Asperger's. I can't stress to you enough how my ex-wife's brother was Asperger's until he met someone perfectly suited to him. He thought he'd be alone forever, too.

[GuitarGuy7]

You haven't' answered questions about Asperger's dating apps or what YOUR ideal physical partner looks like/acts like.

 

If you just want to mope in your pity party, though, have at it. We're not stopping you.

 

 

 

I do have a physical ideal, but that doesn't mean I woudn't date girls who arne't my ideal, it just depends on whether or not I find them attractive.

 

For me, my physical ideal is short, cute face, and can either be skinny or thick.

 

 

I only have a few physical deal-breakers. My physical deal-breakers are being obese, being taller than 5 ft 8, and being black.

[GuitarGuy7]

So what's wrong with these girls?

 

 

 

Did I say random girls? I mean't random guys at my church stop and say hello to me despite us only talking a few times, while the girls tend to ignore me.

[GuitarGuy7]

 

A quick Google search just gave me over 4,000,000 results when I used the search term "aspergers dating sites." Have you tried any of them? Joined any Meetups for Aspies?

 

 

 

I did back in 2016, I forgot the name of it. I didn't use it too much, I talked to a girl from Chicago for a little bit but at the time, I was so emotionally messed up from getting constantly ghosted by every girl on Tinder that I didn't want to deal with the inevitable pain of being ghosted with her.

 

 

There are also a couple problems with asperger dating sites in general.

 

- Autism/aspergers is a predominantly male condition. For every 10 men with aspergers, there is only one girl with it.

 

- Because aspergers is uncommon, there probably woudn't be a lot of profiles to choose from.

 

- The girls who are active, it would almost have to be a couple months of talking and communicating with each other long distance before actually meeting up which woudn't be a problem with me because it's not like I have options anyways, but a decently attractive girl probably woudn't want to invest in a long distance text over a series of months because she know that she can EASILY meet a guy in her hometown face to face.

[Mysterio]

Whats the hang up with Black Girls GG7?

[GuitarGuy7]

Whats the hang up with Black Girls GG7?

 

This post might offend some people just a heads up.

 

I find most black girls unattractive. For one thing, where I’m from, most black girls act too “ghetto” so we would have fundamentally different lifestyles. Also, many of them are fat or have too masculine of a face. Also many black women like cutting their hair short like a boys, and they think it looks good for some reason, no it looks hideous.

 

I have only found a couple black girl attractive, they were both petite and cute faces.

[Foxhall]

 

 

I'm starting to think i'm not anything wrong at all, i'm just ugly. It's hard to appeal to the opposite sex when you're 5 ft 3 and 110 pounds (the most I have ever weighed in my lifetime by the way) All the girls think i'm some sort of creep.

 

 

never put yourself down, there is always someone else to do that for you,

 

just on this size thing, have you ever been tested for celiac conditions,

 

Ive known people who have bulked up significantly after eliminating gluten from their diet.

 

if you are intolerant it means your not absorbing nutrients properly which can impact on building muscle.

[Mysterio]

I am a Black guy.

 

So I don't find what you said harsh if you go by your criteria in terms of looks. Also, you like I are bombarded with images of white women for the most part.

 

So I understand why your initial attraction may not be for Black women in your social environment if you had to look around you.

 

Just keep in mind that all ethnic types ar diverse.

[rjc149]

This post might offend some people just a heads up.

 

I find most black girls unattractive. For one thing, where I’m from, most black girls act too “ghetto” so we would have fundamentally different lifestyles. Also, many of them are fat or have too masculine of a face. Also many black women like cutting their hair short like a boys, and they think it looks good for some reason, no it looks hideous.

 

I have only found a couple black girl attractive, they were both petite and cute faces.

 

...so it's not their race that's the deal-breaker, but the stereotypes associated with inner-city black culture. White girls who are uneducated, unrefined, aggressive, see criminal propensity in men as attractive, and are overweight from unhealthy diets and lifestyle habits, would be unattractive to you as well, I presume?

 

Also, I'm guessing you're white, correct? Not to perpetuate any racial stereotyping, but I would imagine you'd have the most success with Asian women, who tend to be more petite and seem to place high value in whiteness in their mates. In my town it's a rarity to see an Asian woman with an Asian man. Her partner is nearly always a white man who is nearly always physically unremarkable.

 

Asian women would seem like higher-probability dating prospects for you. If we're talking about playing to your strengths, maybe your whiteness is a strength with Asian women. Food for thought. Unless you have a problem with them too.

Edited October 23, 2019 by rjc149

[GuitarGuy7]

...so it's not their race that's the deal-breaker, but the stereotypes associated with inner-city black culture. White girls who are uneducated, unrefined, aggressive, see criminal propensity in men as attractive, and are overweight from unhealthy diets and lifestyle habits, would be unattractive to you as well, I presume?

 

Also, I'm guessing you're white, correct? Not to perpetuate any racial stereotyping, but I would imagine you'd have the most success with Asian women, who tend to be more petite and seem to place high value in whiteness in their mates. In my town it's a rarity to see an Asian woman with an Asian man. Her partner is nearly always a white man who is nearly always physically unremarkable.

 

Asian women would seem like higher-probability dating prospects for you. If we're talking about playing to your strengths, maybe your whiteness is a strength with Asian women. Food for thought. Unless you have a problem with them too.

 

 

Asian girls tend to be short with cute faces so they’re more likely to be my type.

 

Funny thing is that one of the girls I pursued this summer was Asian. I made a thead about her. She wound up rejecting me and friend zoned me, and it turns out the “date” we went on, wasn’t even a date at all.

 

I just keep getting rejected and friendzoned by every girl I pursue. The last 3 girls I asked out pretty much wrote me off.

[Mysterio]

Like I have said before GG7.

 

Accept your height.

Work out for your Mental Health. I do and I know others as well.

On a scale of 1 to 10. Women and dating should be #7 or 8. Not #1. When a woman of merit shows herself. She may get to # 5 then #3 if she plays her cards well.

 

 

Enjoy your life. Your 24.