Author JamesA721 Posted November 24, 2019 Author Share Posted November 24, 2019 And what do you plan to do with the information you have learned? So his response to her message was a thumbs up at first so she liked the thumbs up. So then he responds by saying “just so you know everything and every encounter will be documented to my probation officer” (he was arrested for some Th big that’s his business so I won’t state here) She responded by saying that she can literally go wherever she wants wherever he is present or not. That what he got arrested for had and has nothing to do with her. That she wasn’t falling for his “manipulation tactics”. He has no control over her life and that she was blocking him. She also made some snide comment that he should also tell his probation officer that she hasn’t seen him in forever and that he has no way to even contact her. I asked him why he got so upset about her being there and he said she’s “trouble” and harasses him. But I noticed she stated in the last message that she hasn’t seen him in forever. Nothing is making sense. If she bothers him so much dj, why wasn’t she blocked? He says “idk I forgot about her I don’t block ppl” I said well if you wanted to prove your case it would’ve helped if you blocked her first because now she has blocked YOU and that’s gonna look stupid to anyone if you’re saying she is bothering you. And I also noticed he said to her “I know you knew I worked there I always post it on my Facebook page” so was he posting it FOR her to see? Idk i just can’t with him. He’s not telling me the truth about how he feels. He resents her SO much and I don’t understand it. I DO know when he got arrested, she wasn’t in the picture. So is him threatening her with his PO really a manipulation tactic? Ugh so many questions Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted November 24, 2019 Share Posted November 24, 2019 Your relationship sounds like a mess, as does his former relationship and current interactions with her. Personally, I would aim higher and leave this dude in your dust. It's too much drama and won't be worth it. There are much better-quality men out there than this person. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted November 24, 2019 Share Posted November 24, 2019 OK this all now sounds very familiar. Do you have another username? Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted November 24, 2019 Share Posted November 24, 2019 She still wants to be around him or she wouldn't have taken a job where he works. And he's still torn. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JamesA721 Posted November 25, 2019 Author Share Posted November 25, 2019 She still wants to be around him or she wouldn't have taken a job where he works. And he's still torn. She didn’t take it supposedly because of how he reacted. And Torn how? Link to post Share on other sites
Author JamesA721 Posted November 25, 2019 Author Share Posted November 25, 2019 Do you have another username? I don’t. Sorry ? Link to post Share on other sites
assertives Posted November 25, 2019 Share Posted November 25, 2019 (edited) This sounds very familiar. Think I may have come across a similar post on reddit. But that poster was posting about her ex and how she got hired at a bar that her ex djs at occasionally. Her ex also told her he needed to document their encounters or correspondence because he is now a registered sex offender. Are you guys by any chance talking about the same person? Edited November 25, 2019 by assertives 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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