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Romantic Impressions and Life Changes


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This is more for the women on our Love Shack boards. I think I have asked this before.

 

What do you think would make more of an impression/impact on you in terms of being drawn to a man romantically to you?

 

A man being straight up with you and expressing his romantic attraction towards you and wants to date you?

 

Or a man that you like, that you make yourself know to and express your romantic attraction towards him?

 

When I look at my life. I seem to do a lot better with women romantically for a least a little while. When the woman expresses romantic attraction towards me. Never when I make the effort.

 

When I look at my male friends with their current SO. Most of them, it was the women that did the basic legwork. Lots of my male friends did things in their lives, that I could never see their SO doing for them.

 

TD-Changed his work cycle once a month so he could drive 14 hrs to see his GF. No way would she do that for him.

 

DT- After a year and 9 months of being together. DT got his GF pregnant and she got two kids and she was on yr 4 of being separated and she and her ex can't get divorced. So DT I guess had to ignore his Married GF's status. Moved in with her in April, 5 months after getting her pregnant and pays for the Mortgage and they had another kid after that. No way would DT's gf do that for him and allow herself to be knocked up and then move in with him and two kids and DT could not get divorced from his ex. If he had his GF's life circumstances.

 

GJ's SO has OCD and Bipoloar and can't really hold down a job. It has not gotten better. GJ has to work twice a week 16 hrs a day and every second week work abiout 7 days in a row. No way would his SO do that for him.

 

It seems like Men would more change or make an extreem change to be with a woman, than vice versa.

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