Boyfriend semi-cheated? now i’m struggling to decide if he deserves another chance!!

[schlumpy]

I want to take him back but I want him to struggle first. I want him to hurt and go through hell so he knows to never do this again. I’ve blocked him and rejected all his proposals of fixing this. Its been extremely hard because I really just want to give him the chance to make this right.

 

What should I do?? What would you do?? Leave him and move on? Or make him work hard to earn a second chance??

 

Consequences. It's the only way we learn from mistakes.

 

Make him win you again. Before he comes back he has to have it fixed firmly in his mind that you can live without him. It's all on him and what he does to convince you he's worth a second chance. I don't think talk and promises are going to do it.

 

He can give you all his passwords and still have burner phone in his back pocket.

 

Measure his sincerity by the time he spends fixing his mistake.

 

If he gets tired of waiting and wanders off then as sad as that will make you it would be even sadder if five years from now you had two little ones limiting your options.

 

No matter what the outcome protecting yourself is the best option.