It's been more than three years.

[E-Squared]

It's been than three years since I have dated and had any sexual encounters. Some of you would say "how is that possible" and whatnot, but really, it's not hard to grasp.

 

The question on my mind is would my rust show if I were to date or have any sex? For those who have gone a long period without any romantic or sexual encounters, how rusty were you?

[chillii]

Who knows , don't even know if your male or female but in any case you'll be fine anyway. Two people usually talk anyway.

 

And nope, you might think from places like ls it's something weird but it's not.

Both me and my gf were nearly 4 yrs after our marriages, so what..

We didn't care we just chuckled at ourselves but we're both people that need substance and real feelings and we both needed to be in a the right place again too so you wait as long as you wait.

Wasn't that either of us couldn't have earlier we just hadn't felt it or met the right people.

[Piddy]

Just remember when the time comes to slow down and take your time. Plenty of foreplay. The urge for a guy may be to just get to the act. The woman needs time to warm up, so take your time. It's like riding a bike, you'll be fine.

[Lotsgoingon]

It's all about connection ... Rust? ... What are you talking about?

 

Some of the best sexual experiences of my life were with inexperienced people, including when I was the inexperienced one. Now if you're aiming to be a player ... maybe frequency helps ...

 

If you're look for a powerful connection and passion, frequency has nothing to do with anything. It's about connection ... not technique.

 

BTW: There's nothing odd or strange about going without sex (actually that phrasing is itself dumb) for three years. No more odd or strange than sleeping with people you don't like or you're too embarrassed to introduce to friends ... in order to say that you're having sex.