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13 hours ago, Hoplesslyinlovewith said:

no,,,, Rob wanted to meet him and let him know there was nothing between us but that was like 8 months ago....

Apparently he still feels there's nothing between you two and doesn't want to upset his wife or your husband.  I wouldn't be surprised if this friend hasn't told him the extent of your feelings for him and he wants it shut down.  I agree with JTSW that he probably just thought it was banter and friendly flirting.   He wants to make sure you know he doesn't want you.  What again has Rob done to make you in love with him?  When are you divorcing your husband?

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22 hours ago, Hoplesslyinlovewith said:

"Tell her to go away and leave me alone and leave my wife alone.  I tried to be her friend and I can't when she wants more. I'm married and She is married and I can't have a jealous husband making problems for me."   I can't call him to find out the whole story and I can't keep dragging our friend in to this. I don't even know what happen to make him say this. 

What happened was either his wife figured out your intentions with her husband or someone who knows his wife saw you two snuggling up together in cold weather and increasingly getting closer and they made sure she knew you were after her husband. Rob has enough respect for your husband to not debase him like you're doing behind his back.

Leave him alone like he asked you. This isn't meant to be.  Go fix your marital problems.

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CAPSLOCK BANDIT

Stories like these are why I can't ever, in good conscience, tell somebody that getting married will be a good idea... Like if this is what marriage means to you, why get married in the first place?

I think you need to work on yourself, nevermind your marriage.

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  • 3 weeks later...

Leave and focus on you and what you want. 

Sometimes feelings cloud logic...

Don't stay with someone you don't love. 

 

IDK...

 

I'm just all about being in love with yourself and your life, and your solitude, and your peace of mind.

 

That's about it. 

 

 

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