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My ex broke up with me 5 months before and she jumped into new relationship and I went no contact after that but then she texted me and deleted before I read and followed me and view stories on Instagram..I don't understand why she ia doing this now

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scooby-philly

OP,

 

It's hard to tell without a bit more context and information. But...at 5 months she may either be far enough removed that she's checking in on you to see how you are doing and either hoping you are doing well or hoping you've crashed and burned without her (depending on the nature of your relationship and how you broke up)....or her current relationship isn't giving her what she needs/wants and she's looking back in regret over losing you or just lumping you in with the current bf as "fools" (again, depending on your relationship and how it broke off with her).

 

4-6 months is typically the "dumper" can start to feel remorse, foolishness, or other feelings of regret.

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You need to implement NC correctly then this won't happen to you.

 

All social media must be blocked so you can't see each other's posts & she can't like stuff of yours. Then you block & delete her # out of your phone.

 

She made her choice. She threw you away for the other guy. She's your past. Leave her there.

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