ice_solid_2k4 Posted October 2, 2005 Share Posted October 2, 2005 Hello people, At the start of this school semester there was a girl in my english class. For the past 3 weeks, I had only made eye contact with her, but that was it. Eventually this week, I made conversation with her. During my break I saw her in the cafeteria and we talked. She asked me, if she can sit next to me at class. Since there's this fat chick who always sits next to her and this fat chick thinks that the two of them are best friends. I found that to be very weird, but it wasn't a bad thing in my case. During class, she would smile at me in class and everything went well. Alright once class was over, I asked for her phone number and told her I would give her a call sometime. She didn't hesitate at all when she gave me her number. The next day when I see her, she doesn't say hi to me at all. At that point I wondered if she didn't say anything because she was expecting a call from me that previous night. While we are waiting for our class, I said "Pssssh, don't even say hi!...that's so arrogant of you." Well she says hi and we engaged in a small conversation. The next day, she actually says hi to me and engaged in a small conversation once again. Once class was over, I talk to her again. However, the fat chick is ruining chances for me. Whenever I talk to this girl, the fat chick like answers the questions I ask the girl I like. So I decided that I will call her because I didn't think things were going all too well. Well I call her and the conversation lasted ONE MINUTE!!! I had to end it since it was so boring. Maybe she wasn't that talkative because she was shopping. So I told her that I would give her a call later. I call about 7 hours laters and she doesn't pick up. At this moment, I have some ideas how I may have screwed this up. This is what I think a.) I called her arrogant and b.) I didn't call her right away. Well I see her tommorow at school and I'm not sure how to react to her. PLEASE HELP ME PEOPLE!!! Sorry if this gets posted again, for some reason my computer froze when I posted before. However, this is the official thread. Haha. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Gold Pile Posted October 2, 2005 Share Posted October 2, 2005 In person or via phone, invite her somewhere. (game, movie, concert) If done in front of FC, be she to use your intended's name. " Vicky would you care to join me for a movie Saturday" Or better yet ask FC if you could speak to "vicky" in private for a moment. After the invite say "just you and me". Link to post Share on other sites
ButtonPusher Posted October 2, 2005 Share Posted October 2, 2005 Since there's this fat chick who always sits next to her and this fat chick thinks that the two of them are best friends. "Pssssh, don't even say hi!...that's so arrogant of you." So I decided that I will call her because I didn't think things were going all too well. Well I call her and the conversation lasted ONE MINUTE!!! I had to end it since it was so boring. Referring to a woman as "the fat chick" (4 times no less), and ending a phone call with someone you want to impress, because it is too boring for you, says a lot about you're personality. Maybe she gets a subconscious feeling that you're an a**hole. Link to post Share on other sites
fusangite Posted October 2, 2005 Share Posted October 2, 2005 I think you talked this girl out of being attracted to you didn't ask her out for several days despite having her number and her going to extraordinary effort to deliver the message "I want to go out with you." There is a reason "he who hesitates is lost" is a cliche. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ice_solid_2k4 Posted October 2, 2005 Author Share Posted October 2, 2005 I think you talked this girl out of being attracted to you didn't ask her out for several days despite having her number and her going to extraordinary effort to deliver the message "I want to go out with you." There is a reason "he who hesitates is lost" is a cliche. Yeah, I agree. I never really created a good impression on her, everything was rushed. The second mistake I made was I should have asked her for an email instead of a number. Oh well. I really think this girl is cute, but I'm not sure how to fix it. I never end up in situations like this. You think I should just be cool about it afterall I see her in class like everyday, so I can't exactly ignore her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ice_solid_2k4 Posted October 2, 2005 Author Share Posted October 2, 2005 In person or via phone, invite her somewhere. (game, movie, concert) If done in front of FC, be she to use your intended's name. " Vicky would you care to join me for a movie Saturday" Or better yet ask FC if you could speak to "vicky" in private for a moment. After the invite say "just you and me". I think it may be a little too late for that now. If I apologize, that will make me seem like a wuss. Then we'll probably just end up being friends, which I don't mind. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ice_solid_2k4 Posted October 2, 2005 Author Share Posted October 2, 2005 Referring to a woman as "the fat chick" (4 times no less), and ending a phone call with someone you want to impress, because it is too boring for you, says a lot about you're personality. Maybe she gets a subconscious feeling that you're an a**hole. Yeah, I will agree with you about one thing, which is that I may seem like an a**h***. The reason I ended the conversation was because I didn't want to make things worse. It's not like she was very talkative, so I was like screw this. I asked what some of my other lady friends and they all agree that she's just too sensitive. Why would u get mad at the word arrogant? I said it in such a sarcastic way. BTW, I'm very sarcastic and a smart ass. Haha. Most girls enjoy it, but I guess she really isn't attracted to a "jerk" who happens to be "nice" occasionally. Only reason I want to patch things up is because I don't want to create a bad impression on her. I was actually thinking to talk to her "friend" and ignore this girl just to make her jealous. However, since this fat chick is so attached to her, she may not leave this girls side. I'm just kinda angry, that I wasn't given a fair chance! So what exactly should I do next? Link to post Share on other sites
Author ice_solid_2k4 Posted October 4, 2005 Author Share Posted October 4, 2005 So does anyone know what I should do next? I saw her at school today and she didn't say one word to me. We even walked by each other at lunch, yet no word from her. She didn't even say, "Sorry, I missed your call." Grrrrr... Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted October 4, 2005 Share Posted October 4, 2005 That *fat chick* is her friend. Maybe she senses you dislike of the overweight girl . What makes you think she ( although hot ) can't have friends that look differently than her ? I think she senses you are being an a**hole and has chosen her friend . And rightly so.... Link to post Share on other sites
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