ner Posted November 15, 2019 Share Posted November 15, 2019 Hi. I'm 36, married for 11 years. I can't complain much about my marriage, except my husband and I are very different people and it takes some work to meet in the middle. My husband is my rock, but sometimes I'd wish I married someone who is a bit more like me, personality wise. I feel that I lack that deeper connection with my husband. I can't help but also sometimes wonder what it would be like to have a deep spiritual connection. Your views and/or experiences add some perspective. Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Poutrew Posted November 15, 2019 Share Posted November 15, 2019 I'd say you can thank your lucky stars he isn't too much like you. I'm thinking along the lines of the old English nursery rhyme, Jack Sprat. Being so different you are never in competition with him for the same things... Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted November 15, 2019 Share Posted November 15, 2019 Is there someone you do feel a spiritual connection with, OP? Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted November 15, 2019 Share Posted November 15, 2019 I'd wish I married someone who is a bit more like me, personality wise. Thank God my wife isn't more like me. I'm stubborn, quick-tempered and easily distracted, she's patient, focused and accommodating. Had she shared my qualities and traits, we wouldn't have lasted a year. ner, I'd be more interested in finding someone with complimentary strengths... Mr. Lucky 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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