Blind-Sided Posted November 25, 2019 Share Posted November 25, 2019 Hi All, This post doesn't have any real importance, but I just needed to put it out there because I feel happy. During my divorce, I had a couple female friends who were there for me. And now that it is all over, one of them took me out for lunch, and one of her (single) friends was going to join us. This girl was nice, and we got to talk without being on "A Date". This, in of itself felt good. But then, a few of her other friends happen to show up. One of them asked who I was, and she told her... and the next thing I know... I was being bombarded with questions, and being shown pictures of her single friends. As we were sitting there talking about single women... one of their group sat down close-ish to me. I assumed just so she could also see the pictures, and be part of the conversation. (rest of her group was at the next table) But later that night... my friend who started it all said she was also single, asked about me... and said I had a nice personality. LOL No... there was nothing physical, and there were no ph#'s exchanged (but there are now some new FB friends) but, it just made me feel good knowing that even at my age, I'm still an ok looking guy that people are attracted to me. It was a good afternoon. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted November 25, 2019 Share Posted November 25, 2019 That's great! Nice you have people interested in getting to know you or setting their friends up with you once you're ready. Link to post Share on other sites
mark clemson Posted November 26, 2019 Share Posted November 26, 2019 Although I'm not dating, I get the impression that a "decent" single guy is worth a lot in the middle aged dating market. Keep at it! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Blind-Sided Posted November 26, 2019 Author Share Posted November 26, 2019 That's great! Nice you have people interested in getting to know you or setting their friends up with you once you're ready. Yes it is. At first, my friend said she wasn't sure, but then remembered about the girl who originally joined us for lunch. All the rest was accidental. But from that outing... there is at least 5 girls they knew about. Although I'm not dating, I get the impression that a "decent" single guy is worth a lot in the middle aged dating market. Keep at it! Yes, it seems that way. Honestly, I was worried, and it was something I was thinking about before the actual divorce papers were drawn up. (where would I meet someone new, since I'm not a bar kind of person) But it was kind of funny... this group of women happened to stop in, and they didn't know me at all... but when my friend said she had known me for 15 years, and just finished a rough divorce... It might was well been that I knew all of them for that long. I know this week is rough with Thanksgiving... but I guess I should reach out to one of them to see if they want to grab dinner or a coffee. Thanks for listening. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Foxhall Posted November 27, 2019 Share Posted November 27, 2019 good vibes always appreciated, 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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