Daisydooks Posted December 22, 2019 Share Posted December 22, 2019 On 12/2/2019 at 5:36 PM, LuckyLady13 said: What would you do if you were me? I would stay as far away from all of them. There is no relationship to salvage with sickos who actually saw any of this and believed your mother (having physically seen her behavior or heard her speak.) They all sound incredibly insane and abusive. Even if they never touched you themselves, no one ever thought you were human enough to be saved. Not a single one of them. No one should have to endure this and I am sorry you've lived it so long you feel the need to be the bigger person/adult and mend or build relationships with people who should have had your back and protected you when this started. In fact, they played a roll in your abuse by not protecting you in my opinion. They are part of the bigger problem here. None of this is normal or healthy for you and staying away from all of it will lead to your own growth. It is now time for you to grow and fly. It's easy for me to say this as it's not me in the situation, but please get yourself away from EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. OF. THESE. SICK. PEOPLE. Dont you ever feel like this is on you to fix or mend any of it. All of them are twisted and insane. They're just as bad as your parents. All of them. They all knew and decided to turn a blind eye or played an active roll in keeping it hush hush. What speaks volumes to me is your grandmothers involvement here. She probably did the same to all of her own children (which is where your mother learned this sick and twisted stuff from.) Break the cycle and break away from the entire family. It IS worthless. Walk away, with your chin up, back straight and your heart open to only those who care for you and want what's best for you in life. Your blood family arent those people. Thinking of you. Xoxo Link to post Share on other sites
Ellener Posted December 22, 2019 Share Posted December 22, 2019 Enough already. You are who you are and who you are meant to be. Embrace your best and the people who see your best self. Merry Christmas and all the love in the world. Link to post Share on other sites
schlumpy Posted December 23, 2019 Share Posted December 23, 2019 How about writing a song that expresses how you feel? You can discover a lot about yourself and your feelings as you search for the words that tie the lyrics to the music. Link to post Share on other sites
K.K. Posted December 23, 2019 Share Posted December 23, 2019 Quote “How to talk to relatives who think I’m an insane, Satanic heroin addict” In a really deep growly voice, bent over at a 45 degree angle. Make sharp zombie-ish movements every few seconds. They’ll leave you alone after that. Bet ! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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