Nikki79ua Posted October 3, 2005 Share Posted October 3, 2005 Hi. I am 26 year's married. We have completed one year of our wedding. I have the problem with my mother-in-law and sister-in-law. They are very open to my husband. My mothe-in-law changes her blouse and saari without feeling that her son,daughter and daughter-in law ar e present in the room. I am very furious at that time. My husband also don't care wheather she is changing her clothes. It happens many time and I am not able to stop such kind of think which makes me angry and I make quarrel with my husband.My husband also don't care m y these feeling. Sometime I also noticed that my husband touches her breasts or hip or but taks. My family life is not going well due to this. My mother-in-law , husband and sister- in-law thinks that I amd not linking to live with then. But I respects my in-laws. Once my husband told me before our marriage that "3 years ago, he and her sister suck her mothe r's breast nipple for milk". I have a baby boy of5 months. When he was born, my husband sl eptwith his father and sister in a single bed due to space problem and I was very tense th ose days for this. I started quarreling with him from that time. All such kinds of things are coming in my way. I think I have to go to the doctor. Although my husband is very cari ng and helpful for me but I can't face such type of scenes. What should I do? I told my pr oblem to my husband but he said that "I am narrow minded, he can do such kind of thing b'c oz she is his mother"? Link to post Share on other sites
Lil Honey Posted October 3, 2005 Share Posted October 3, 2005 I don't know what country you are from, but here in the US, that's incestuous. Well, in MY mind, it's incest no matter WHERE one lives . . . Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nikki79ua Posted October 4, 2005 Author Share Posted October 4, 2005 I know there is no relationshp between my mother-in-law and my husband but their living manner disturb me. My husband did not understand me. I am from India. I told my problem many time to my husband but he is not agree to compromise. According to him this relationship is between a son and his mother and their is no problem in this. But I think if son is not yough then this relationship is wrong. I will thankful to you if you will advice me what to do? I am helpless I do not want to talk to my parents regarding this and in this city, DELHI-India, I have no friends, B'coz I am from another state. Link to post Share on other sites
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