scocar Posted December 17, 2019 Share Posted December 17, 2019 I just started dating a woman and our teeth bump whenever we kiss remotely passionately. I was married for a long time so I haven't kissed that many women (but at least 20), but this has never happened before. I enjoy kissing her and other than the teeth bumping I would say she is a really good kisser. It is not like I think she is being too aggressive or anything.  Is it possible our mouths just are not compatible? Anyone else ever have this happen?  I have not yet talked to her about it as we have literally kissed twice, so I am sort of seeing if it fixes itself. Link to post Share on other sites
K.K. Posted December 18, 2019 Share Posted December 18, 2019 Is she a buck tooth?  4 minutes ago, scocar said:   Is it possible our mouths just are not compatible?   Yes it is.   I had a boyfriend one time that was great in every other way, but he couldn’t kiss for s***. His teeth were kinda bucky and they just wouldn’t fit my mouth. I tried and tried and tried and tried. It never got better.   Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted December 18, 2019 Share Posted December 18, 2019 Well, now I had a bucktooth boyfriend once and they didn't get in the way. I guess you have to learn to not do it by practice. Maybe she hasn't had much practice. Keep trying.   I had a bf once who I just didn't like to kiss. Thin lips or something. Felt like I couldn't get any suction. It was a shame.  Link to post Share on other sites
Author scocar Posted December 18, 2019 Author Share Posted December 18, 2019 5 minutes ago, K.K. said: Is she a buck tooth?   Yes it is.   I had a boyfriend one time that was great in every other way, but he couldn’t kiss for s***. His teeth were kinda bucky and they just wouldn’t fit my mouth. I tried and tried and tried and tried. It never got better.    No her teeth are fine. Link to post Share on other sites
K.K. Posted December 18, 2019 Share Posted December 18, 2019 Hmmm well I don’t know ... maybe she does just need practice. Teach her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author scocar Posted December 18, 2019 Author Share Posted December 18, 2019 2 minutes ago, K.K. said: Hmmm well I don’t know ... maybe she does just need practice. Teach her.  I just wonder if she is thinking the same thing of me. lol Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted December 18, 2019 Share Posted December 18, 2019 Just say, Here, let's both try pouching our lips out more so our teeth don't knock. Don't tell her "so YOUR teeth don't knock." That would be the end of that. Take mutual responsibility.  Link to post Share on other sites
K.K. Posted December 18, 2019 Share Posted December 18, 2019 I don’t know, I mean I could never get him to kiss right and I didn’t want to hurt his feelings. I knew it wasn’t me because I kissed plenty of guys and it was fantastic.  Is it ok kissing other girls? If so, then it’s probably her??  It’s an iffy thing. Didn’t matter how I approached it, it just wasn’t working. I couldn’t bring myself to say anything about it and would eventually turn my head if he went in. Link to post Share on other sites
Author scocar Posted December 18, 2019 Author Share Posted December 18, 2019 5 minutes ago, preraph said: Just say, Here, let's both try pouching our lips out more so our teeth don't knock. Don't tell her "so YOUR teeth don't knock." That would be the end of that. Take mutual responsibility.   Of course. I honestly do not know that it isn't simply a compatibility issue and not necessarily her fault. Although I have often been complimented on my kissing and I have never knocked teeth before. Maybe it is sort of like dancing and we are both trying to lead? I've never thought of the mechanics of kissing. I just do what feels natural. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted December 18, 2019 Share Posted December 18, 2019 I've been in a situation early on in my kissing career where it wasn't working and I think our mouths were too far open.  🤓 Link to post Share on other sites
K.K. Posted December 18, 2019 Share Posted December 18, 2019 (edited) Editing cause it makes me feel bitchy.  The s*** we do to try to find love, man. Edited December 18, 2019 by K.K. Link to post Share on other sites
Tonk Posted December 19, 2019 Share Posted December 19, 2019 The occasional unexpected teeth knock when kissing really deeply makes me happy inside :) constant knocking, not so much! Link to post Share on other sites
PinkFlamingo Posted December 23, 2019 Share Posted December 23, 2019 (edited) On 12/19/2019 at 2:02 PM, Tonk said: The occasional unexpected teeth knock when kissing really deeply makes me happy inside constant knocking, not so much!  I thought occasional bumps were normal. Edited December 23, 2019 by PinkFlamingo Link to post Share on other sites
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