LemonWorks Posted December 19, 2019 Share Posted December 19, 2019 So I'm in a relationship with this girl who lives 25 miles away from me for roughly a year now and while it's an LDR, she never comes to see me. No matter the occasion (family, birthday, parties), I always have to go and pick her up. She claims her upbringing is that the guy has to do it and she never will do it. What I have noticed is, her family is involved in the relationship and telling her what to do, so I feel like shes pleasing her parents. Also, she does go see her guy and girl friends (in her own car) regardless of the distance. Lately, I've noticed that she doesn't show appreciation that I take the time to go get her and while I have brought it up to have her come by and see me at least once, she won't budge. Is there another way I can approach this or am I doing it wrong? Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted December 19, 2019 Share Posted December 19, 2019 I don’t think she’s as into you as you are into her, OP. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
blackbird_brokenwing Posted December 23, 2019 Share Posted December 23, 2019 I hardly think 25 miles constitutes a long distance relationship. She sounds lazy and selfish and not very into you. People who want you will make an effort. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author LemonWorks Posted December 23, 2019 Author Share Posted December 23, 2019 2 hours ago, blackbird_brokenwing said: I hardly think 25 miles constitutes a long distance relationship. She sounds lazy and selfish and not very into you. People who want you will make an effort. You pretty much answered my fears. I kept thinking if I'm doing it wrong or something, but even if I commented to her what days I have off, i have to "adjust" to her schedule. Link to post Share on other sites
Kaarek Posted December 31, 2019 Share Posted December 31, 2019 (edited) I think it's time for a new partner my friend, try to find someone closer, LDRs doesn't work out properly, avoid them if you can. Edited December 31, 2019 by Kaarek 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author LemonWorks Posted January 2, 2020 Author Share Posted January 2, 2020 On 12/31/2019 at 3:52 PM, Kaarek said: I think it's time for a new partner my friend, try to find someone closer, LDRs doesn't work out properly, avoid them if you can. Oh man, itll be tough. But you're right. I dont feel happy as I used to be and I feel more like an option instead of a priority. Link to post Share on other sites
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