ZA Dater Posted December 19, 2019 Share Posted December 19, 2019 Here lies my fundamental problem with dating, or be it one of the many. So I meet someone nice, take care not to appear over eager. The difference with this one is we met before we started texting so this isn't the typical OLD scenario. Of course I cannot determine if being friendly is being interested, I got her number so I would interpret that is some form of interest. What do I do know? Sounds stupid but this is someone older than me so I'd assume wiser, do I do the typical coffee type date or something a bit different. There is this great market she told me about, I have been once or twice and I know she likes it. Do I invite her to go with me overtly? Not really too sure why I am having such an issue with this? As I say I usually always have this problem in some form or another just this time I think its worse because we did get along fairly well in person but I cant tell if she is interested, more so because she is older. Link to post Share on other sites
greymatter Posted December 19, 2019 Share Posted December 19, 2019 Of course you should ask if she would be interested in going to the market together. How much older is she? In what ways do you think her age matters? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author ZA Dater Posted December 19, 2019 Author Share Posted December 19, 2019 Well I think probably 10 years. Anyway I asked her how her week was going and received no response. So I guess I have my answer. Am going to just leave it now. I mean I can send out the usual friend zone type things vibes but what does that get me. Unfortunately I suspect I am shopping out of my league here which of course was one of the things which made the idea attractive. Link to post Share on other sites
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