athletictommyj Posted October 3, 2005 Share Posted October 3, 2005 We were together for 13 months, it is getting closer to my time to leave for Iraq, and , she said I was not social enough for her, there were other reasons why she broke up with me but that is besides the point. Then I told her I was going to austin, 6th street, and getting a hotel room with like 8 other guys and 2 girls, all friends, she freaked out. And she has been mean ever since, she said she just doesnt want to know. I was not going to go hook up with anyone, all I was doing is having fun and trying to get over her, she goes out with her friends all the time, I dont see what the big deal is. She said I made her cry, I dont see what I did wrong, she doesn't want me for her reasons and I am not going to wait for her to make up her mind. She acts like we can be friends but I don't want to be just friends, I could not handle seeing her with another boyfriend, it would be wierd. Any advice on what is going on or what I should do? Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
slubberdegullion Posted October 3, 2005 Share Posted October 3, 2005 Move on. You've got enough on your plate right now with your impending excursion to Iraq. The last thing you need is to be distracted by "what if's" and the like when you need to focus on keeping yourself and your buddies in one piece. Good luck. And keep your head down. Link to post Share on other sites
Drivetildriven Posted October 3, 2005 Share Posted October 3, 2005 So you two are broken up and if so, for how long? Maybe while you're gone, she'll get her head out of her ass and figure out what she wants. I would move on and show her by NC that it's her loss. I'll be in the desert next month, though not Iraq. How long is your deployment? Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted October 3, 2005 Share Posted October 3, 2005 You'll be a much better soldier without any worries back home. At this point love will only deter your effectiveness, especially when you're thousands of miles away. It's nice to have someone who cares about you, but that's what family is for. You can count on them for emotional support without wondering whether or not they'll dump you when you need them most. Go out there and kick some ass for us. Link to post Share on other sites
Author athletictommyj Posted October 6, 2005 Author Share Posted October 6, 2005 Thanks for the advice and support from everyone. I think I will move on and she can see what she doesent have, she told me that all she has been doing is drinking everynight bc that is the only to forget me, yet she calls me and acts like she wants me when she does. I think I have had enough, I need to go get my couch and a few other things and then thats it. We have been apart for almost 1 month but it has felt like longer, I think I am finally getting over her and her bs. Sound good? Link to post Share on other sites
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