lidilidi Posted December 21, 2019 Share Posted December 21, 2019 So I'm dating this guy from a month. He is 38 and he have a child. Everything went good at ours previous dates but I had to come back to my city for the Christmas holidays. He gave me this gift before I leave ... a silver bracelet and he wrote me "write me when you arrive sweetheart" at the day at my flight. I wrote him, I sent a photo of my home and then nothing ... he just stopped answering. What should I do and should I actually do anything? Everything is passing from my mind. What happened Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted December 21, 2019 Share Posted December 21, 2019 Is he still in touch with the baby momma? If so, that's why things are quiet right now. He has to play faithful daddy, celebrate together for the child with their families. You will most likely hear from him either just before or after Christmas. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
schlumpy Posted December 21, 2019 Share Posted December 21, 2019 It could be anything. He could be down with the flu or in the hospital in a coma. Would anyone know to contact you if there was a medical emergency.? He could be spending time with his child and not wanting to destroy their dream of him and mom getting back together again. Until you find out why, you should relax and enjoy the time with your family. You can pass judgement on his excuses at a later date. Don't let that shiny silver bracelet mean more then what it should. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author lidilidi Posted December 21, 2019 Author Share Posted December 21, 2019 Thank you for the replies The kid is living with him, her mommy have another kid and is living with her new husband. She is taking the girl once in a month. I guess it's something with the kid as they have holidays now but it seemed a bit strange to me I don't have experience with people who are parents already. I guess it's different. I don't say that the "shiny bracelet" mean something really special but I think it shows that it's not like I don't mean nothing to him. Link to post Share on other sites
VIOLET EDEN Posted December 21, 2019 Share Posted December 21, 2019 How long has it been, no one usually leaves that kind of gift during the holidays unless he is serious Link to post Share on other sites
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