Claracluck Posted December 22, 2019 Posted December 22, 2019 Hi I befriended a guy in a Meet Up Group 3 weeks ago and there was some flirtation. I started chatting to another guy and he appeared to be jealous and left. Last night he chatted with him and he spent some of the night kissing 2 women in th club, the 1st 1 was still there when he was kissing the second one who had also kissed someone else earlier. They had both earlier disclosed they weren't looking for relationship. I got very jealous and it upset me.l told him how I felt.. I said I was angry and confused. Also how he was treating these poor women. .. We both had a big to drink. He spent some of the night looking over at me. He gave me platitudes saying that's why hes afraid to settle down cos he gives the wrong impression?! Anyway he just walks off after I tell him after he asks the status of me and Male friend! So me and friend go to get food and him and girl number 2 are bang right outside the takeaway we are in and there are severaldiwn the street. I feel I've been played like a fiddle to massage his ego. Hes obviously immature. How to proceed. Personally. I am thinking of saying I've moved on and let's just be civil. I still want to go to meet up group..Dont want it to be aqward.
preraph Posted December 22, 2019 Posted December 22, 2019 Yeah just say no thank you to any further invitations and that you just don't think your personalities are compatible. It sounds like you would both driving each other crazy. 1 1
schlumpy Posted December 23, 2019 Posted December 23, 2019 He got out his high school year book on dating, got his revenge on you and then walked tall into the sunset. What kind of meet up group is it where after a few minutes of conversation it's lip-lock time? 1
CAPSLOCK BANDIT Posted December 24, 2019 Posted December 24, 2019 If it makes you feel any better, there is a pretty good chance them banging outside is on camera and will probably be on the internet at some point. 1
Author Claracluck Posted December 24, 2019 Author Posted December 24, 2019 You are very right. My thoughts exactly. Maybe Christmas but doesn't mean you should leave your morals at the door. Thanks ..
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