fliss Posted December 26, 2019 Share Posted December 26, 2019 Hi All, I am new to this site and I am looking for advice.... I am fairly successful. i have a good job, I have my kids, I'm capable of looking after myself and I'm not unattractive..... But. I married my children's father when I was young. I left him when my son was two. I went off to uni then, while I worked. I spent a few years focusing on myself and my kids. I met a man 4 years ago. He had lost his first wife to cancer. We got married but he died a year later!! As much as I miss him, I wanted to be married and I enjoyed the companionship. I really want to have that again. I'm so young!! (42) Do men date widows or is my time up? When I was doing my internship for uni, I had a crush on a man, who was married, at the time. Due to his marriage and us being work mates, I never flirted or told him or pursued it. Nor did he, but I always felt that there may have been reciprocal feelings. Anyway.... fast forward a few years and his wife left him for someone else around the time my partner died. We have stayed FB friends and he likes just about everything I post. He lives an hour away from me. Should I tell him? Would he want to know? Can love happen after 2 marriages???!!! I do not even know how to meet up with him again. It's been so long since seeing him, we have only kept in touch online and even that was scarce due to him being married etc. Am I imagining that this could still be a thing? Link to post Share on other sites
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