I dont understand my ex

[Sheenzy]

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Hi so i have just come out of a 15month relationship and im having some serious problems. We broke up because we just wernt able to get along consistently enough and it was me myself who ended things. We went 2 months without talking and out of no where my ex had unblocked me and started asking me how i was. I was reluctant to reply and kept it short and sweet. However she kept messaging. And had started asking me if i had moved on and apologised. I replied and expressed that she herself said she wanted nothing to do with me and now she wants me in her life as a friend and that it just doesnt make sense.

What i later noticed is she had posted a pic up with a guys hand in the picture and when i questioned her she said it was just a date and she wasnt with anyone. I explained that i would not be her plan b or chair to fall back on for if whatever that was with the guy went t*ts up and she didnt like it and said i was mean. She then told me she was going on holiday over the festivities and when i asked oh who with she said with one of her girlfriends and the guy she was on the date with and another guy. She had no reason to lie we arent together however i have soon found out shes only on holiday with this one guy. And only him and that he was her manager at her strip club where she works and they were a couple! Now we had conversations where she was talking about missing me and wanting to see me and even sent me a nude video of herself and all of this was done a few days before the holiday. So at this point i walked away again and said i wanted nothing to do with her and we returned to being blocked again. About 3 days into her holiday she had unblocked me on instagram and whatsapp and started following me on instagram and watching my stories. However i had seen she had told this guy she loved him. So i questioned her and ssid why are you following me and watching my life and she said she could do what she wanted and i said she couldnt and that she had lost the right to be involved in knowing my life and i removed her. At this point i expressed id figured her game out and she was nothing more then a using abusing lying golddigging girl and wanted nothing to do with her and that i was going to inform this new guy of her contacting me if it was all innocence as she made out and she got upset and blocked me and got him to block me. Anyway, i managed to get the message across to this guy and showed him the proof she had been sending me nudes and harrassing me and stalking me. And she unblocked be and said she wants nothing to do with me anymore(which she has said 100 times).
I got drunk xmas eve and made the biggest mistake of messaging her, i know right im stupid! And she acted concerned then said she couldnt talk to me i asked her if she was in love with this guy she said yes and she blocked me again.

Its been 2 days now i have not had any contact with her. And today i got a text from one of her friends where she gave him my number telling me to stay away from her and let her move on. Ofcourse i told him that in truth it was her who kept pestering me and left it as is. He claims he messaged of his own back however was on the phone to her while shes abroad telling her the conversation. And some how got my number. So she clearly got him to do this 2 days after it was done and dusted.

My questions are:
1. Is she in love with the new guy shes with aka her manager of her strip club or is she using him to get to me and for the free money?
2. Why is she getting friends to contact me after we have buried all of our dramas and moved on.
3. Is she wanting to get back with me or is she using me for own personal gain?
4. what is her need to tell so many hideous lies about me to people?
5. Do you think she will contact me again?

6. Why has she been lying to me?

I want a good detailed break down from strangers that are conpletely objective.

Edited December 26, 2019 by Sheenzy