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Relationship Ending Over Something I didn't Even do


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32 minutes ago, ChatroomHero said:

She's manipulating and putting out feelers. I'd guess it was her and she can't admit it because she would look crazy. Personally it would drive me crazy and I'd just ask her to leave me alone and move on, stop responding. Living by waiting on the next drama to unfold that you know is coming you just don't know when is always a ticking bomb waiting to go off. Eventually you have enough and move on. I am all for not waiting on the eventually and just moving on and saving all that wasted time.

Uggh love is tough.  Glad I at least called her sister to ruin a smear campaign and ended up making her look crazy.

2 weeks back she changed her netflix profile from my name to some new garbage like “doctor hot stuff” but didn’t change the password.  Either dumb and forgot, or doing it on purpose so that I would see.  She can’t be alone and always has an option in the background somewhere if she thinks we won’t work out.

I really deserve a gigantic apology from her and her to crawl back and me not care, but that will probably never happen.  She’s probably deluded herself into thinking I did this when she knows it’s her or a new guy. All my friends say it’s her and nothing about that email even sounds like a guy talking vs threats to fight if I appeared on her phone again.  And she sure wouldn’t be talking to me if she thought I did this.  I know I would block somebody like that

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Her drama continued on Thursday this week.  Texted me mid day asking for the friend's number that worked together with us who's picture is tied to the account.  Called me left a vm and said she was at the police station and they needed his number.  I called her and told her to leave him out of this and that I had already sent his info so she should have it.  Called him to warn him.  He laughed and showed me all of her friend requests that she sent him on every social media network known to man.  Texted him wanting to ask him about it with a PI (so not only does she have a lawyer but she's hired a PI lol).  This all started earlier with her that day posting a picture on yelp of having brunch drinks while at work.  I assume she must have been good and tipsy and I was on her mind.  She texted me misspelling words and everything.  I just told her I loved her and she was gonna owe me an all-time apology for this.  She told me she loved me too but I had really messed her up with this.

I assume her whole purpose of reaching out to my friend was to smear me to him too, but she doesn't know that he and I keep in contact every other day or so talking jobs and women and stuff.  He already knew all of this.  I figure she was going to ask him and he was going to say no, and then she would try and warn him that I was crazy or something and to never talk to me again and ruin a friendship.  Otherwise I don't have any clue why she would be reaching out and pretending to be at a police station.  She must be miserable without me, miserable with somebody new, or just flat out pissed she didn't get proposed or at minimum us move in together.  I treated her wonderful otherwise.

There's a thin line between love and hate I guess.  No idea where she's currently at with whichever feeling.  Friends are saying stay away bc she's unstable right now to be doing this and is the type of chick that only wants to make me suffer and who knows to what length.

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