Beachead Posted February 22, 2020 Share Posted February 22, 2020 (edited) @Cookiesandough When you break up with someone, they're likely not going to be okay. They'll vent to their family and their friends and that side is going to harbour some kind of animosity and resentment towards you for hurting their family. Their family is going to defend them. It's part of the territory with breakups. So consider going forward, when you're dating someone, not just taking on the person you are dating, you'll have to take on their friends and family as well. If you two end, all those people will likely be done with you as well. It's part of the territory with these things. Although you may feel you showed respect and ended things well, your ex and his family may not share in that view. Like the others said, I'd pick a different venue that doesn't involve your ex's family. It will only blow the night up into an unenjoyable, toxic mess. - Beach Edited February 22, 2020 by Beachead 1 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted February 22, 2020 Share Posted February 22, 2020 (edited) I reviewed this whole thing again, and I take back my last post. No, don't ever talk to him again or let him contact you. He isn't respecting your decision and he sounds crazy and maybe could hurt you even. For God's sake, you have to stay out of that venue or anywhere you might run into his family or him. Don't be foolish. Go in there and someone will call him to come down and confront you and you'll end up being the dead ex-girlfriend in a club shooting. C'mon. Use common sense about that. I know it may be a sacrifice, but you have to do it. Block him and his family and any friends who may have interfered on his behalf and be done with him and stay away from his turf. You can stop feeling bad now. He's allowed his family to attack you and he's not respecting you at all and he's acting irrational and not accepting your decision as if you don't have the right to make it. He's also acting like a big baby. Block him, by all means, and stop feeling bad about it. He IS unstable. Edited February 22, 2020 by preraph 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Commongoal123 Posted February 24, 2020 Share Posted February 24, 2020 To be clear is to be kind. So be clear with him. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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