Why doesn't he look me in the eyes when he asks me some serious questions?

[J888]

I'm with this guy for a year. Last night, as usual I was late. At one moment he said, if I don' love you (he paused), if you are not dear to me I wouldn't tolerate you. Did he accidentally said and then corrected himself ? Or he really loves me ?

Edited January 6, 2020 by J888

[J888]

 

 

We have been seeing each other for one year. He thinks that I sleep with other men. He was very upset. Even he start to insult me. Why is he mad at me if he sleeps with other womens.

Lately he ask me every time when we see each other I am I in love with him. I told him no  but he keeps asking me. Why ?

[stillafool]

I don't know; did you ask him why he keeps asking you that when you've made it clear you don't love him?

[ExpatInItaly]

Better question - you're still dating someone you are not in love with. Why?

I'm sure you know why he's asking you. He is trying to see if you feel the same way he does. If you don't, what are you still doing there?

[d0nnivain]

If you don't love him it would be kinder to stop dating him.  He asks because he loves you & wants you to feel the same.  You are stringing him along & that is not nice.  Just end this for his sake & yours.  

[d0nnivain]

This is just another variation on your other post. 

He's lashing out because he wants more & you are not willing to give it.  Since you don't love him & now he's insulting you, just end this.  

[basil67]

If you don't love him, why are you still with him?    He may have some questionable behaviour, but so do you.

[J888]

Why doesn't he look me in the eyes when he asks me some serious questions? Questions about my feelings, future ? 

Edited January 7, 2020 by J888

[CautiouslyOptimistic]

How can he if it's a long distance relationship?

[alphamale]

because he is deceiving you in some way, shape or form

[basil67]

Perhaps he’s one of us who finds eye contact uncomfortable.  

[alphamale]

1 minute ago, basil67 said:

Perhaps he’s one of us who finds eye contact uncomfortable.  

one won't go very far in life if he/she can't make eye contact

[J888]

I am seeing this guy for a while. He thinks that I sleep with other men. Last time when I was at his place he started to talk me about other girls, that he has sex with one girl two days before, that he has been with other girl one week ago. He talks how beautiful other girls are. Does he want to make me jealous or is he saying that because we're not in a relationship and he doesn't feel anything about me?

[basil67]

47 minutes ago, alphamale said:

one won't go very far in life if he/she can't make eye contact

my eye contact is a bit hit and miss, yet it’s never been a problem.  If I tried to do eye contact during. D&M I’d get the giggles 

Edited January 7, 2020 by a LoveShack.org Moderator

[alphamale]

1 minute ago, basil67 said:

 

what's D&M?

[basil67]

Deep and meaningful conversation 

[Robert]

4 threads on the same basic topic have been merged into one

Thanks

[Mrin]

possible reasons:

1. He's feeling you out for a threesome

2. He's trying to make to jealous

3. You're now a "bro" that he bangs

4. He's a complete idiot

My money is on #2 or #4. 

 

[basil67]

J888, you've already said in other posts that you've been with him two years and you don't love him.  So why do you care that he sees other women?  

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

This kind of talk is usually related to like dominant vs. submissive types, you sound like you've submitted to this guy.

[Daisydooks]

How do you ACTUALLY  feel about this man? 

[stillafool]

9 hours ago, J888 said:

I am seeing this guy for a while. He thinks that I sleep with other men. Last time when I was at his place he started to talk me about other girls, that he has sex with one girl two days before, that he has been with other girl one week ago. He talks how beautiful other girls are. Does he want to make me jealous or is he saying that because we're not in a relationship and he doesn't feel anything about me?

If he was trying to make you jealous he's gone too far to expect to keep you around.  It sounds like you have been friend zoned and he doesn't care that you know he's seeing other girls.  Did you tell him you don't have sex with other men?  I read some of your other posts and you said you've told him you are not in love with him so why do you care that he sees other girls?

Edited January 7, 2020 by stillafool

[J888]

He asks me do I love him but does not reveal his feelings. When he ask me and I say no, he doesn't say anything. Why ?

[d0nnivain]

You told him you don't love him.  What do you want him to do?  

[usa1ah]

On 1/6/2020 at 7:39 PM, J888 said:

Why doesn't he look me in the eyes when he asks me some serious questions? Questions about my feelings, future ? 

Because he doesn’t want to see the answer in your eyes.