Christa323 Posted January 7, 2020 Share Posted January 7, 2020 Hi everyone, Just wondering if you guys can help me work out what the hell my ex was going on about. A couple of nights ago my ex (the father of my daughter' asked me if my daughter has someone else she calls dad. I would have assumed he would have worked it out as my daughter would have mentioned it sometime ago. I said not yet, as I've not met anyone I've been serious about enough to introduce her to - but that would obviously change one day. He then just said that I should move on - for me?! I was a bit taken aback by this as I haven't really shown any interest towards him. Basically he lives in australia, our daughter is nearly 5. I fell pregnant early in our relationship, and he couldn't deal with it and left to live in oz (he had planned to move there before he met me). It's all a bit messy, but I still like him and would love to be a family. However, the trust is broken and I'm unsure if it could ever be repaired. However I'm still interested in why he asked if I was essentially single? Any ideas? Link to post Share on other sites
GeorgiaPeach1 Posted January 7, 2020 Share Posted January 7, 2020 He basically abandoned you with a child (one of the worst things one person can do to another), and you're entertaining fantasies of being a family and wondering what he's thinking?? To answer your question, it sounds like he can tell you still have feelings to some degree and wants you to move on with your romantic life. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted January 8, 2020 Share Posted January 8, 2020 At best he was concerned there was a man in his child life but he's not trying to get back together with you or your daughter 1 Link to post Share on other sites
PRW Posted January 10, 2020 Share Posted January 10, 2020 He probably found a chick but rather than announce that he just said you should move one. OR Maybe he was drunk or high, and doesn't know what he is doing. Pick one Link to post Share on other sites
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