SexStarved Posted October 4, 2005 Share Posted October 4, 2005 I'm recently divorced man and quite frankly I feel like I want to **** my brains out for the next few weeks. Any advise on how to do so? I'm 46 and was married since 21 to the same woman. Last time we had sex was Nov 22, 1999. I'm tired of masturbating, and would love love love some new sex experiences, especially with woman of my own age. I was never really in the whole dating scene, and well, even if so, it was so long ago. I'm no hunk, but seemed to be termed "likeable and cute". I'm now overweight (220lbs at 5ft 11), grey, and balding, so would say I just look like the average guy. I live in New York City, in Queens. I am not into the bar scene. Not necessarily looking for one night stands (though I'll take it), but short term relationship that would lead to sex. Any thoughts on where to meet up with woman seeking same would be appreciated? If it matters any, I have 11 and 6 year old, but I work from home and maybe play during the daytime is best though not required. At this point, this is not something I'm want my children involved with, to be around my home, etc. I know this is not a matchmaking board or anything, but I've been so out of such things for so long, I'm just a complete loss for where to start meeting woman, etc. Link to post Share on other sites
Topper Posted October 5, 2005 Share Posted October 5, 2005 Go on The internet you will see lots of ads of escort services. Link to post Share on other sites
Outcast Posted October 6, 2005 Share Posted October 6, 2005 Buy condoms. Use them. Try to meet people in a way that is safe. You don't want some wierdo in your home. Best you should use hotels or motels rather than bring them home for the sake of the kids. Link to post Share on other sites
jaye Posted October 6, 2005 Share Posted October 6, 2005 one you are 220 lbs you are bald and gray God bless you man. call 1-800 numbers and see from there. Link to post Share on other sites
gevoraksix Posted October 6, 2005 Share Posted October 6, 2005 You sound cute! I think you should start working out,that would be great for your self esteem get some of that horniness under control. Start doing activities you like ,football partys at a neighborhood bar is a place to meet a lady. If you have friends you can club with i think you would find a one night stand pretty quick. just keep your emotions in check,do not get attached. Since you havent been on the scene in awhile i just want to remind you use protection. First, do a google search put dating,casual relationships and sex in search,you should get many sites . Be careful in placing your ad think about what you want to say tell the person about yourself ,I wouldnt say Im looking for sex i would stick to casual relationship, If you are strong enough, go for it! Link to post Share on other sites
SuperMonk Posted October 6, 2005 Share Posted October 6, 2005 yeah likeable and cute, till you take off your clothes. maybe try prostitutes or street sex workers. Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted October 7, 2005 Share Posted October 7, 2005 Six years without sex?!?!? Poor thing. I think you will get sex most easily if a woman is drunk - which means in a night club. Oh, and don't expect Miss America to let you examine her anatomy. I think the women who are most sensitive to your approach and compliments are the best target for start. If she seems hard to get - that's what she probably is. Try the dating sites and perhaps dancing clubs. Good luck! Keep us posted. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted October 7, 2005 Share Posted October 7, 2005 Ask your friends to set you up or just introduce you to people. With work functions, if there are any, start going. I know you said you're not into the bar scene, but maybe just go once in a while. Shoot pool or play darts. Put yourself out there and BE confident. Women like confident men. Looks don't really matter too much, but make sure you smell good and have some sex appeal. Good luck and have fun. Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted October 7, 2005 Share Posted October 7, 2005 make sure you smell good Mmmmm, meat balls and sausage smell good! SS, start working as a plumber (between 9 am and 4 pm) and you'll meet many desperate women! Okay, now something serious... have you ever thought about being a porn actor? You'd get a lot of sex! Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted October 7, 2005 Share Posted October 7, 2005 Grocery shopping. Be flirty while shopping...And, smell good. Women LOVE men who smell nice. It's a huge turn on! Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted October 7, 2005 Share Posted October 7, 2005 ..And, smell good. Women LOVE men who smell nice. It's a huge turn on! WWIU, you just posted that 30 minutes ago! I think you're thinking with your tiny little... you know what! Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted October 7, 2005 Share Posted October 7, 2005 I'm making my point clear to him...And yes, actually very tired too. So, I'm repeating myself, lol. Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted October 7, 2005 Share Posted October 7, 2005 I'm making my point clear to him...And yes, actually very tired too. So, I'm repeating myself, lol. I meant tiny little clit, by the way. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted October 7, 2005 Share Posted October 7, 2005 I meant tiny little clit, by the way. Yeah I know what you meant. Who said I have a tiny clit? Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted October 7, 2005 Share Posted October 7, 2005 Yeah I know what you meant. Who said I have a tiny clit? You are a riot! :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Topper Posted October 12, 2005 Share Posted October 12, 2005 I Just love a woman who thinks with her Clit, Makes me want to have a deep stimulating conversation with it. Link to post Share on other sites
lilmoma1973 Posted October 12, 2005 Share Posted October 12, 2005 I'd be careful Topper it might have teeth!!!Wouldn't want it to bite ya!! LOL Link to post Share on other sites
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