Sailynn Posted October 4, 2005 Share Posted October 4, 2005 When your ex-GF tells you that she has been thinking about you, dreaming about you, telling her friends about you, you'd naturally be curious. So, I ask, "what have you been thinking about me?" A legitimate question. She balks at answering the question. She turns timid, changes the subject, avoids answering. I tell her, it doesn't matter what you think, good, bad or indifferent, just tell me. I can handle the truth, I can't handle silence. She is just overcome with insecurity or fear and has avoided answering me on three occasions. Has anyone experienced this? How did you handle it? I think the best thing to do is not to initiate contact with her for awhile. Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted October 4, 2005 Share Posted October 4, 2005 When your ex-GF tells you that she has been thinking about you, dreaming about you, telling her friends about you, you'd naturally be curious. So, I ask, "what have you been thinking about me?" I think you don't speak or understand "girl" Link to post Share on other sites
francis Posted October 4, 2005 Share Posted October 4, 2005 that is not a legitimate question. that is not why she is telling you this stuff. you asking her that comes across like you are just looking for her to stroke your ego by divulging the details. the point is that she is revealing this info to you and she is looking for more of a response about whether you have been thinking of her too. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sailynn Posted October 4, 2005 Author Share Posted October 4, 2005 ...and I told that I had. I even told her I was thinking of her a lot and I told her what I had been thinking. That I was really enjoying our time together and was looking forward to more and wanted to continue our deep communications. Link to post Share on other sites
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