jess060191 Posted January 10, 2020 Share Posted January 10, 2020 So yes this is gonna be about the same ex I have posted on here multiple of times... and I’m hoping it will be my last Anyways... I made it a goal to cut my ex out in 2020. Jan 1 comes and I don’t hear from him just how it should be. Jan 2nd I get a message from saying how he’s sorry that he hasn’t reached out because he was in the er.... so I ignored him. Then he calls me, I ignored him again. Then he messages me again saying he’s in the intensive care unit and he’s in bad shape. So I respond because at the end of the day I still have these stupid feelings for him. I started to talk to him daily and reaching out to him. He was discharged 2 days ago and needless to say I haven’t heard from him since. So once again I feel like I was used for my time and taken advantage of because he knows I care for him. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted January 10, 2020 Share Posted January 10, 2020 You were used. Lesson learned. Picked yourself up & be stronger next time. First step -- go into your phone & block his #. Then you won't have the ability to be weak 3 Link to post Share on other sites
GeorgiaPeach1 Posted January 10, 2020 Share Posted January 10, 2020 Just dust your butt off and get back on the horse, so to speak. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted January 10, 2020 Share Posted January 10, 2020 never stay "friends" with an ex unless you have kids together 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Foxhall Posted January 10, 2020 Share Posted January 10, 2020 Its difficult that- its nearly worse than outright rejection, keeping in with you when it suits them, but yet keeping you very much at a distance, have not read any of your other posts, but from what you say there, you have not done anything wrong anyway, so chin up. Link to post Share on other sites
Malin889 Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 7 hours ago, jess060191 said: So yes this is gonna be about the same ex I have posted on here multiple of times... and I’m hoping it will be my last Anyways... I made it a goal to cut my ex out in 2020. Jan 1 comes and I don’t hear from him just how it should be. Jan 2nd I get a message from saying how he’s sorry that he hasn’t reached out because he was in the er.... so I ignored him. Then he calls me, I ignored him again. Then he messages me again saying he’s in the intensive care unit and he’s in bad shape. So I respond because at the end of the day I still have these stupid feelings for him. I started to talk to him daily and reaching out to him. He was discharged 2 days ago and needless to say I haven’t heard from him since. So once again I feel like I was used for my time and taken advantage of because he knows I care for him. Why was he in the intensive care unit? Link to post Share on other sites
schlumpy Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 If you are not willing to go dark on him then he will keep you in limbo for as long as you allow it. This is your choice not his. Link to post Share on other sites
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