samanthacopen Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 My ex boyfriend of 2 weeks sent me a drunken message that he thinks I should know he's slept with someone else while drunk, he is not sorry we broke up, he loved me and will always love me but is truly over me. Why would he send these? Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 Sounds like he's underscoring the fact that he's over you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author samanthacopen Posted January 11, 2020 Author Share Posted January 11, 2020 (edited) Why emphasize it though when we're not even talking? And we broke up 2 weeks ago after being together for 1.6 years and lived together for 1 year. Edited January 11, 2020 by samanthacopen Added information Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 Because it seemed like a good idea at the time. Link to post Share on other sites
Author samanthacopen Posted January 11, 2020 Author Share Posted January 11, 2020 I guess so. This is all completely out of character for him. Link to post Share on other sites
Daisydooks Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 He made a decision to drink too much, and then wanted to make you jealous. Without knowing more its hard to say Did you end it or did he? Why did it end? Was he bitter about breaking up? Link to post Share on other sites
Author samanthacopen Posted January 11, 2020 Author Share Posted January 11, 2020 6 minutes ago, Daisydooks said: He made a decision to drink too much, and then wanted to make you jealous. Without knowing more its hard to say Did you end it or did he? Why did it end? Was he bitter about breaking up? He ended it because we got into a fight over me being mad he wasn't spending time with me. He told me he was happy and this is the happiest he's been since we've been together. He typically doesnt drink 1 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 (edited) Then it makes sense he's moving on and is happy. If he had wanted to spend time with you, you wouldn't have had to argue for it. Edited January 11, 2020 by basil67 Link to post Share on other sites
schlumpy Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 He wants to make sure he burns his bridges with you because he still has feelings for you and can't trust himself. I suggest you don't respond. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author samanthacopen Posted January 11, 2020 Author Share Posted January 11, 2020 7 minutes ago, schlumpy said: He wants to make sure he burns his bridges with you because he still has feelings for you and can't trust himself. I suggest you don't respond. I don't plan on it Link to post Share on other sites
Ellener Posted January 11, 2020 Share Posted January 11, 2020 Life's rich tapestry... let him have his closure and don't worry about it. It doesn't take anything from you or your future. Link to post Share on other sites
Author samanthacopen Posted January 11, 2020 Author Share Posted January 11, 2020 4 hours ago, schlumpy said: 4 hours ago, Ellener said: Life's rich tapestry... let him have his closure and don't worry about it. It doesn't take anything from you or your future. Why send it if he truly feels this way? Link to post Share on other sites
Ellener Posted January 12, 2020 Share Posted January 12, 2020 11 hours ago, samanthacopen said: Why send it if he truly feels this way? drunk and over-emotional. Link to post Share on other sites
DKT3 Posted January 12, 2020 Share Posted January 12, 2020 My guess, he isn't sure he made the right decision and told you those things to convince himself he did. I actually have doubts that he slept with another woman. If my guess is correct, he will continue to contact you indirectly, through friends and social media outlets. Stuff like posting pictures of him having a good time. Link to post Share on other sites
Author samanthacopen Posted January 12, 2020 Author Share Posted January 12, 2020 16 hours ago, DKT3 said: My guess, he isn't sure he made the right decision and told you those things to convince himself he did. I actually have doubts that he slept with another woman. If my guess is correct, he will continue to contact you indirectly, through friends and social media outlets. Stuff like posting pictures of him having a good time. Yeah he's been using Facebook a lot more than he used too. Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby Slippers Posted January 12, 2020 Share Posted January 12, 2020 I'd block him. You don't need this crap. Link to post Share on other sites
Buffer Posted January 13, 2020 Share Posted January 13, 2020 Because he is a idiot. Link to post Share on other sites
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