pinartgirl Posted October 4, 2005 Share Posted October 4, 2005 I got astrology report today at my mail box and it read: “This month, starting the 1st but continuing all the way 'til next month, your romantic task is to look a little harder and a little deeper, and try to uncover some of the subterranean patterns that structure your romantic successes and failures. Are there ways that you are maybe creating unnecessary problems, over and over? Everybody does, you know. The trick, for you, this month, is to try to look at how you do it.” Astro aside… this is something I’ve been thinking about and do for some time. The truth is I don’t know how to do it! Where do I start? I just don’t know what my patterns are. I am not sure what question to ask myself. As far as I see, it was almost always different. With every relationship I had, some new stuff came up. So how do I dig deeper to find out larger truth that I can’t see right now? Anybody done that? I will appreciate if you’ll chat about with me. Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted October 4, 2005 Share Posted October 4, 2005 Anybody done that? I will appreciate if you’ll chat about with me. Yes. You could ask yourself what character traits you're attracted to, what positive and negative traits your exes have. And how this relates to your father or other early male influences. You could look at how the relationship plays out. Who takes the initiative. Who is keenest at which stage and in what circumstances. These questions would be a good start. Link to post Share on other sites
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