Manish Posted January 14, 2020 Share Posted January 14, 2020 She broke up with me after 3 month relationship and moved on with someone else in a week so I went in no contact but she always try to indirectly contact me like following on social media , watching stories and like posts. She reached out after 6 months for holiday and then asked me about my dating life and even said she is happy that I am not dating anyone and told me she is happy with someone and offered me friendship i said I can't.. And I told her to not contact me if she is happy with someone else I need to move on and I removed her from social media. But she always try to direct / indirect contact me and she said she don't remember anything ,she don't care about me she is happy with someone else just wanted to ask how I am doing and if I am going through pain and heartbreak it's my problem..I should stop being victim I finally removed her from social media but it hearts that she never loved me and moved on like I didn't matter ever.and i am struggling here thinking I wasn't enough i am not worthy..It hurts Link to post Share on other sites
Imnew1 Posted January 14, 2020 Share Posted January 14, 2020 (edited) So basically you’re sad about somebody that you had a short relationship with, and who from all sounds of it didn’t give a damn about you. Sounds like you don’t wanna be friends and let her have her cake and eat it too, which is what you should do....so take away the ability to eat at you. Why are you responding to her about anything other than I miss you and want you back? She doesn’t deserve to know about your dating life and if you’re happy or even dead. She didn’t want you and moved on within a week which is heartless so let her have fun with her life and knowing you’re in her past and not allowed in her future. Insecure women just looking for anybody are the types that monkey branch btw. You didn’t lose anything 20 years from now. Edited January 14, 2020 by Imnew1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
2BGoodAgain Posted January 14, 2020 Share Posted January 14, 2020 1) it hurts. that's legit, but you need to figure out why it hurts. It helps to understand where this feeling comes from. 2) she didn't fall for you, she may have liked you, but not enough to mourn the relationship. The fact that she moved on to another guy that quickly, and her advice is basically get over it and be my friend, etc... it's coming from someone who's never been fallen for someone or isn't something who's emphatic enough to relate to you. Or she just plain doesn't care about you. She only wants you for what you have to offer, but not you, the person. This kind of person is a user. Stay away, it's a red flag. 3) don't respond to her, even if she texts you, or sends you email or even shows up infront of you. NC = NO CONTACT whatsoever. It sucks when you do that, and they come finding you... well, this is unfair but something you need to do... DONT RESPOND. delete it, don't give it any value, trash it, then delete it permanently. 4) dude, this girl doesn't care about you at all. block her from everything. social media, phone, etc. good luck to you, and i hope you care enough about yourself to protect yourself from this type of person. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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