Author Kristine Posted January 19, 2020 Author Share Posted January 19, 2020 He said he got my text but he's talking to me again. My problem is I like him a lot, or I would block him. I'm torn. He talked about coming over today because I'm stuck at home, but plans changed. How can he say we're soulmates, that he loves me more than I love him, and be like this. I don't want to be used by him. That's why I haven't had sex with him. I still have my sex guy, and I'm getting worked up again. A former guy I was dating and did sleep with (sex was good) wants to go out again. I told him no because he's way into me and with having the ex boyfriend bugging to get back together, I didn't want to get into that situation again. I really did consider him though, he'd give me what I want, a relationship. Problem is he's not the guy I want. He can't hold a conversation with me, just tells me repeatedly how beautiful I am, I got so sick of it I told him I know. This guy and I have good conversations, but he's not wanting a relationship, just the perks of one. Do I end it with all of them and start over? My heart tells me just go along with guy I like until something better comes along. My gut says drop them all and start over knowing what you know. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted January 19, 2020 Share Posted January 19, 2020 12 minutes ago, Kristine said: How can he say we're soulmates, that he loves me more than I love him, and be like this. I don't want to be used by him. Yeah, you should ask him this. Link to post Share on other sites
spiderowl Posted January 20, 2020 Share Posted January 20, 2020 No point waiting for a guy who wants a break. He is not as interested as you. You would be best to move on so he can see you will not wait for him. He will not appreciate you if he thinks he can mess you about like this. Link to post Share on other sites
Silver_star Posted January 20, 2020 Share Posted January 20, 2020 22 hours ago, Kristine said: Do I end it with all of them and start over? Yes. I think you should end it with all of them. Its only a matter of time before things turn into more of a headache for you. Either their feelings get hurt or yours do. Don't settle for good enough, or half ass effort. Link to post Share on other sites
scooby-philly Posted January 22, 2020 Share Posted January 22, 2020 Nothing like starting fresh with no one. Not saying you can't go back to one of the other guys, but really, your heart and energy was with this one guy. You'd do all of you a favor by cutting ties and moving on. Link to post Share on other sites
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