Author hotpotato Posted January 26, 2020 Author Share Posted January 26, 2020 I talked to him the other day, and he brought up this subject on his own. He said some girls get tired of it. He said he was hurting esp several years ago. He didnt go on about her that time. I think I tolerate this kind of stuff. Hes not the first one to overshare with me. Hes also very talkative. We saw each other again. Maybe I was kind of judging him by what my last ex did. Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted January 31, 2020 Share Posted January 31, 2020 On 1/20/2020 at 8:49 AM, hotpotato said: I haven't found the one either, and I dont want to hear guys complain about their true love who got away oftentimes bc of their own wrongdoings. I'd say I'm caught somewhere in between with experience. I have more experience than an 18 year old but less than guys my age. Many in their 20s are married with kids where I live. I've had few relationships, and I dont meet a lot of men. I dont have The List like a lot of people do bc I haven't been around that much. At this point I dont want to date. I no longer feel like dealing with men on that level. l think it's great you don't have those lists. l'm 50s and l don't really either well compared to a lot of guys. l was married 20yrs to but since that didn't work out , 7yrs, ;last thing l want now is a string of ex's and dead ends and l had no interest in women with dozens of ex's either,. But you know , talking about an ex doesn't have to mean stuck on an ex, any serious ex was a big part of life during that time , so sometimes you just can't talk about that time without bringing the ex into it too. Women talk about exs a lot to but often really , it's just the same sort of thing , but if it is hurt or something, that's ok too, we all go through it. Link to post Share on other sites
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