mysoulm8 Posted January 17, 2020 Share Posted January 17, 2020 I would like to do some traveling this year to find my soulmate. Where is the best place to find candidates before I start booking my travel? Link to post Share on other sites
schlumpy Posted January 17, 2020 Share Posted January 17, 2020 Read Enigma's thread about his trip to the Philippines to find the love of his life. It may be just what you are looking for. Link to post Share on other sites
fromheart Posted January 17, 2020 Share Posted January 17, 2020 Are you male/female? What age group? What make you think that you can meet your soul mate traveling? Not a disrespectful question, I've traveled for many years and am curious to know, Link to post Share on other sites
snowboy91 Posted January 17, 2020 Share Posted January 17, 2020 (edited) Hate to burst your bubble, but I'm going to pick this apart a little. Firstly - this idea of a soulmate. I assume you've got this idea that there is one person out there in the world who is your perfect match? Statistically speaking, how will you ever know you've met such a person? Big questions there, but I'm going to distill it down a little and make some assumptions. Let's say you do want to go travel and find this person who is your perfect match, if it is possible to do so. What would they look like? As in, what would make them attractive to you? What sort of person do you want to meet? As in, is there a particular culture, mindset, demographic etc that you feel would best suit you? Also, similarly important, what don't you want? It's very hard for us here to answer your question without any more info. There are a LOT of variables involved, and there's definitely no general answer to this. Edited January 17, 2020 by snowboy91 Link to post Share on other sites
Aus Posted January 17, 2020 Share Posted January 17, 2020 everywhere you go, there you are..... 2 Link to post Share on other sites
2BGoodAgain Posted January 17, 2020 Share Posted January 17, 2020 I think you've been watching too many hollywood movies, or books on epic love tales... you won't find your soul mates by purposely making it extra difficult to find one... though, whether you go abroad or local or mebbe a bigger population center... presuming you're living in a town where there essentially the chances of you dating your 1st cousin by chance is pretty high.... a larger pool, might benefit you.... but realize, the further you go away from your home... there are diff challenges... though, not necessarily bad ones.. b/c let's say you go to a diff country to find your "soul mate" and you find someone worthwhile and compatible... there will be HUGE challenges in how you perceive the world and each other.. diff value systems that you won't notice when you start out b/c well... you're too busy banging each other... lol. anyway, why do you feel the need to go so far to find someone? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted January 17, 2020 Share Posted January 17, 2020 Why do you think you have to travel to find this person? If soulmates exist don't you think the universe would put them close to each other? If you want to travel, go where your wander lust takes you. If you want to meet somebody to spend the rest of your life with, look locally. The common geography will increase your chances of success. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mysoulm8 Posted January 18, 2020 Author Share Posted January 18, 2020 14 hours ago, schlumpy said: Read Enigma's thread about his trip to the Philippines to find the love of his life. It may be just what you are looking for. Thank you. I just read it and find it encouraging. Link to post Share on other sites
Kitty Tantrum Posted January 18, 2020 Share Posted January 18, 2020 Albuquerque. Link to post Share on other sites
mark clemson Posted January 18, 2020 Share Posted January 18, 2020 "Soulmate" is a pretty vague term. Depending on what you mean it may be in part a matter of great compatibility OR a matter of brain chemistry creating super-intense attraction (or maybe both). There should be enough women in almost any major urban area to find great compatibility. The brain chemistry thing is out of our control. You sound like a romantic looking for an excuse to travel. Hope you meet some awesome and memorable women. Link to post Share on other sites
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