A12345 Posted January 19, 2020 Share Posted January 19, 2020 (edited) Sorry this is so long - I have shortened as much as I can but needed to get it all out as the last few days have been rough. My ex of 6 years [] broke up with me about a month ago. We were each other's 1st proper relationships. We had a good relationship with minimal arguments (just the normal couple stuff), lived together, travelled a lot and were always talking about marriage and a long future. Things over the past year have slowed down (been on less dates and been intimate less frequently) due to me mourning the loss of a parent and falling into depression. She had also expressed what seemed like jealousy over me "doing better" at work than her and resentment over this, which started just before she broke up with me. We had also had a few arguments in the couple of weeks leading up to the break over her not helping out at home and being lazy etc. especially in the week leading up to the break up, but it wasn't anything major. ...... Edited January 24, 2020 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Personal information Link to post Share on other sites
TeddyBundy1993 Posted January 19, 2020 Share Posted January 19, 2020 Same story everytime. Relationship hits a rough patch then some other douchebag arrives shines and girls leave for him. With my experience if a girl leaves for someone else it's over. Length of relationship doesnt matters for them what you both went through doesnt matters for them it's all over feelings have gone and she belongs to someone else now. This happens mate people grow apart with time they change. Shes seems coldhearted towards you because she has no feelings for you anymore and you are no more center of her world and worst to sum it up you are just someone she used to know. That's how it goes. This friendship s*** is donkeys s*** a classic line from dumpers been used for ages. Dont fall for her words look at her actions. She has gone through so many days without talking to you without knowing about you. Few months ago when I suffered same i surrounded myself in same thoughts exact same questions you are having right now. Your best bet is move on with no contact. Sorry to say but when a girl get emotionally involved with another guy we men should take it as a spit on our face from such girls and walk away. Its extremely cruel but it happens so often. She showed her real character shes a monkey branching girl stringed you around for a year until a shiny punk arrived and charmed her. Let her go for good. Consider her dead. She didn't proved herself to be reliable lover neither as a friend as you said her words doesn't matches her friendly promises. Be a man. Walk away dont revolve around her and make her feel shes special. Move away bcz it's best for your self respect. Focus on your life consider it as a someone who spat on your feeling your love and even your face clean this mess and move on let her do s*** with her life she will be monkey branching after this guy too I promise. Focus on your career ok as you said she was jealous about you being more successful. Take care this f***ing blow comes to the best of us forget her move on find someone more emotionally stable after you move on Link to post Share on other sites
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