Author jutr Posted January 31, 2020 Author Share Posted January 31, 2020 schlumpy thanks to join the forum and thenk you for your advice. Special thenks to d0nnivain for advice and support. --------------------------------------------------------- Ok, here we go I send yesterday an sms to my ex. If we can talk when she has time. She answered immediately yes . i called her ,i was emotionless and 100% collected. i first asked her how is she ? The answer was yes i am OK, i got the feeling she wanted me to start asking and apologize etc....I said I was calling her for contact with my child. And also for a reason that i wont to move out of she life she said there was no alternative and she hoped we could be friends i told her that i don't want to be her friend, i say don't get me wrong, i don't hate you, but i want to have contact with you/her just for the sake of our daughter. She become immediately uninterested in my call ,I say thet I hope she will not make me problem for be in contact whit my daughter becos i wont to end this caos and there is no rison to make moor problems . she tell me thet she aggre whit this.And almost imediatly tell me that I should visit my doughter only trough weekend. I say yes , I will do it when this will be possible (my work, and distance are the problem) but I will fined some way to make it as much as possible.Then the tension it calmed down , I ask she if are shure in whot are she doing she tell me yes , that she is in love and she enjoy this new relationship. I tell she I am heppy for booth of them , so you have another reason to be cool whit me , as from now you have another guy to bother.We booth smile for some second .Then she start talk about some financial problem ,I say yes I know (i wos thinking whay da hell will this interess me ?) then she say me that she will no longer have time for calls ,I say i am Ok whit this becos there is no reason we discuss about anything other then my contact whit my doughter.She aggre and close the conversation. So I come to a conclusion she is totaly out of control , this is the tenth time we have a similar talk and everything is fine for her, everything is beautiful, she is in love and she has never been so happy,all is Ok , but whay she is not able to let me have normal contact with my baby ? ther is no reason a normal person ,which is in love , heppy like never befor , do this..TO BE CONTINUED.... Link to post Share on other sites
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