Justaguy1234 Posted January 28, 2020 Share Posted January 28, 2020 (edited) Grade 12 male. Never dated or done anything with a girl. I offered to drive girl I kinda liked home one day, then ended up driving her home a couple times a week for a couple months. Because we talked on the way home so much, we became closer and we would text a bit but mostly talk in person which was good because i hate getting to know people over social media. It eventually worked, one day she asked me out to coffee. Problem was, i saw the message too late. I told her i would go another time, but i was really busy and was debating if I should. Since around that time, i started becoming good friends with her ex of over a year, and didnt know if i should make a move on her. He somehow convinced me that she was using me to drive her home, so i stopped driving her home, it was out of the way anyways. I started going to the gym almost everyday and curling twice a week with her ex, as well as hanging out with him at a friends house on weekends. Me and him became actual friends at this time. Anyways couple weeks after i stopped driving her and the girl asks me out to lunch, this was when i knew she for sure liked me and wasnt just using me. I wanted to go, but i had a school team thing, so i couldnt. Once again, I told her I would make it up to her and take her out the next week. This gave me time to think about it. I decided that it would be betraying my friend if i were to date his ex. He said he was over her and he was ok with it but he still talked about her alot, i could tell he wasnt over her. So, I never asked her out. Im not sure if i made the right decision, i pretty much just became friends with her ex, and i had been talking to her for a few months. Anyways now her ex has a new girlfriend he is happy with, so i dont think he would care anymore. Problem is, after I never asked her out, the girl started dating another guy. This was about 2 months ago, but she went on vacation for like 5 weeks. She just got back a couple days ago and it made me think i might have made a mistake. I cant do anything now though, she has a boyfriend. Now I have no idea who to take to prom. Im not really friends with any girls, and i dont know how to appropriatley meet girls. I have no dating experience, and ive tried to have conversations with girls i dont know well online and it always sucks. What can i do? And do you think i made the right choice? Edited January 28, 2020 by Justaguy1234 Link to post Share on other sites
SumGuy Posted January 30, 2020 Share Posted January 30, 2020 A right choice, as in one coming from good intentions and doing the honorable thing even if it doesn't benefit you directly? Yes. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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