GuitarGuy7 Posted January 30, 2020 Share Posted January 30, 2020 So I was walking around college campus when a random girl said "hello" to me, naturally I was polite and I said hello back and then just kept walking. But then she said, "hey we played frisbee together" and that's when I knew she was referring to the church frisbee group, so I stopped and talk to her for a couple of minutes. I got kicked out of the group and I asked for her to re-add me and she did. And then she said "hey what's your name?" I gave her my name and then she said "well see you around" she was super friendly. I'm not used to women being this friendly towards me, maybe she was just being friendly and not actually attracted to me. Girls usually arne't attracted to me, so I don't want to get my hopes up. I won't see her around for a couple of months anyways because it's too cold outside to play frisbee. Link to post Share on other sites
Mysterio Posted January 30, 2020 Share Posted January 30, 2020 Its a nice Attention thing for you. Savour and and it will spur you on to other great happy situation. Link to post Share on other sites
clia Posted January 30, 2020 Share Posted January 30, 2020 8 hours ago, GuitarGuy7 said: I got kicked out of the group and I asked for her to re-add me and she did. And then she said "hey what's your name?" gave her my name and then she said "well see you around" she was super friendly. I Why were you kicked out of the group? Was she the one who kicked you out, and did she have the right to re-add you? I'm just asking because you should be cautious about showing up at this group if you have previously been kicked out. I think it's kind of interesting that this girl remembered you, but you didn't remember her at first. Maybe a good sign? It's hard to say if she was just being friendly. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SumGuy Posted January 30, 2020 Share Posted January 30, 2020 That's great! No harm in talking to her more, even if she is just being friendly it is good to have friends who are girls. And you never know, she may find you interesting and attractive, her adding you back to the group is a great sign. Link to post Share on other sites
Author GuitarGuy7 Posted January 30, 2020 Author Share Posted January 30, 2020 I won’t be seeing her much because I only know her from the frisbee group and it’s too cold to go outside and play for now. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted January 30, 2020 Share Posted January 30, 2020 Why were you kicked out? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
mark clemson Posted January 30, 2020 Share Posted January 30, 2020 That's great. I would assume she's just being friendly and nice, but an improvement. Hopefully you are picking up on some of things folks have been posting in here (in various threads) on how to get along socially with women and be attractive to them, etc. If/as you slowly improve, your romantic life should gradually improve as well. Possibly in your 30's (when the tables start to turn for the genders) you'll have many options, particularly if you start following up on that make lots of money part of the plan. Suggest you eventually move to an area where there are lots of people around, too. If that's possible for you, it will mean that there are a fair number of unattached women floating around at any given time, and presumably some of them will be right for you. Link to post Share on other sites
The Outlaw Posted January 31, 2020 Share Posted January 31, 2020 20 hours ago, GuitarGuy7 said: So I was walking around college campus when a random girl said "hello" to me, naturally I was polite and I said hello back and then just kept walking. But then she said, "hey we played frisbee together" and that's when I knew she was referring to the church frisbee group, so I stopped and talk to her for a couple of minutes. I got kicked out of the group and I asked for her to re-add me and she did. And then she said "hey what's your name?" I gave her my name and then she said "well see you around" she was super friendly. I'm not used to women being this friendly towards me, maybe she was just being friendly and not actually attracted to me. Girls usually arne't attracted to me, so I don't want to get my hopes up. I won't see her around for a couple of months anyways because it's too cold outside to play frisbee. It's never too cold for some peeps, but go anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
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