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Today marks a month that I have had the privilege to create a connection with you. Who would of ever thought a simple message like this would have created everything that I hope for. I have waited so long to write this but had no idea what I would say. You’ve brought out a very romantic side of me, everyday I try and just make you smile and make you feel worthy. Hopefully I make you feel as lucky as you make me feel. I know we haven’t spent a lot of time together...I know for me it can be difficult when all I want is to be next to you, talking with you and learning about you. It’s such an incredible feeling when you look at me. It’s the little things Valerie. Just seeing you or hearing your voice can make a hectic day seem so flawless. You’re f***ing incredible. I pray everything works out between you and I. I want a family with you. I need you...

      When you initially liked my photos on twitter, I didn’t know your intentions. To be honest I was scared to message you...I didn’t know what I would say..I knew I had to be different. I knew I had to be brave. But I didn’t know what was gonna happen...

One thing I did know is that you had Lilly and I just wanted to be in her life...I wanted more than just a title of being a boyfriend or a friend. This means more to me than that. 

      I really cannot thank you enough for allowing me into your personal life. I’ve learned that you are very closed off from everyone. It’s not a bad thing either, I just think you’ve learned a lot in life so you stay focused on what’s around you. You care about your heart because it’s been hurt. I understand and I respect you in every which way. I appreciate the affection you give me. We could literally start a fire baby.

      I could really go on and on...but ima leave it at that baby...it’s 11:20 at night for me...but Good morning babygirl 🌤

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you're quitting at 11:20am?

dude, when i was in love... i didn't sleep! i saw the sunrise and contacted her as soon as i knew she'd be awake. lol.

I kid...somewhat.

it was pretty.

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Oh boy.... Yes it does feel magical when you first start falling in love.

But.... When there are children involved etc, one must use a bit of caution, it's not just you, or her that can end up hurt from moving too quickly, but an innocent child as well.

One month is just a scratch of the surface of getting to know someone - the depth will come in time.

"When I was in love what happened"?

I am in love, I fell in love, the deep genuine kind, not puppy love, or limerence, or infatuation once in my life - when I met my husband.

What happened? I thought he was really cool, and cute, and wow, had so much in common and saw eye to eye on so many things. Being with him just felt comfortable, the first time I laid my head on his shoulder and felt him hold me - I felt like I was home. Being with him then, and many years later now - just feels so right.

He's my best friend, the person I enjoy spending time with more than anyone else, the person who shares my victories and defeats. The person I think about when I wake up, when I go to sleep and throughout the day. He's my partner in crime, and confidant. 

We "moved fast" but were young, life was uncomplicated. No kids, ex's or much in the way of baggage.

A little over a month after we met we exchanged I love you's and in the progressing months talked about the future - it was a delight to see once again we were on the same page (marriage can wait, don't want any kids, not now, not later, open to relocation etc). Six months after we met we moved in together, commingled our meager funds, and proceeded to build a life together.

This year we will be celebrating our 19th year 

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