How to come to terms with an ex who is unwilling to accept responsibility for wrongdoing?

[PureAppleJuice]

Yes, I totally agree @AIJ - can be a bit difficult when I might be in a good mood and then she suddenly walks past me in a hallway or something. When she doesn't come in, I am fine and don't really think about it that much. When she's there, I feel quite tense etc. So yes, would just like to get out of it completely and work on healing 100%

[AIJ]

Just now, PureAppleJuice said:

Yes, I totally agree @AIJ - can be a bit difficult when I might be in a good mood and then she suddenly walks past me in a hallway or something. When she doesn't come in, I am fine and don't really think about it that much. When she's there, I feel quite tense etc. So yes, would just like to get out of it completely and work on healing 100%

Yeah I can only imagine how tough that would be, I've been fortunate enough to have only been involved with girls that aren't in my immediate vicinity and the chances of bumping into them had been incredibly slim. University is tough enough as it is let alone when going through a breakup. I actually struggled horrifically in my second year as a result of a breakup and barely passed, fortunately turned it around in third year and somehow graduated with a First. 

Focus on University, try your best to separate your emotions from your assignments and exams and I'm sure you'll be able to comfortably move forward over the summer. Best of luck. 

[PureAppleJuice]

@AIJ - yes, it was awful. Much like yourself, I did terribly in second year, when the break up happened. Congratulations to you on getting a first, though! That isn't easy, well done. It's always easier when you don't have to see an ex, and can move on with space. That was a truly awful time, having to deal with a break up, then all these essays, and no real 'space' to process things as she was in my face all the time lol. What an awful time. When I look back I can definitely see the progress I've made. 

Thank you, will definitely focus on assignments etc. Thanks for your reply