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I need advice! Ex just sent me a text message


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You're in control of the situation, so enjoy it. ;)

 

That is a good point and it does feel good to see him act like this. It is hard for me not to fall for his mind games because I would love it if we got back together. He has a girfriend, the last I knew anyway so things must not be going the way he wanted them to with her. He really is making me angry and I don't want to waste my day worring about this. :mad:

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GIRL POWER!!!!!!!

 

You can do it babe - Be strong!!!! If you answer you will so regret it 0 Let that mfer beg lol :)

 

 

:lmao: :lmao: :lmao:

 

you are so right though!!!!

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That is a good point and it does feel good to see him act like this. It is hard for me not to fall for his mind games because I would love it if we got back together. He has a girfriend, the last I knew anyway so things must not be going the way he wanted them to with her. He really is making me angry and I don't want to waste my day worring about this. :mad:

He's got a girlfriend and he sends you this kind of messages???? What a first rate jerk! :eek:

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yes, he is a jerk!

 

Well, i ignored him and just got another text that said "sorry, i'm just messing with you"

 

He must really think this is fun but i'm so glad I listened to everybody here and ignored him because it must really bother him that he didn't get a reaction out of me.

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In my opinion he sent that to see what u would say .............probably hoping u would be like "haha yeah it was good, when do u want to do it again??" so he knows he still has u and all that crap. but no dont answer him

 

ive come to the point with guys that Text messages dont do it. if u really want to talk to me CALL me dont give me a lousy text. i really dont need to have the occational "hey whats up??" just so they see if ur still there. dont feel bad thinkin hes going to get mad or upset u dont respond. think of all the times u were upset and he didnt do anything for u! so dont respond to textes anymore in my thoughts!

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He's got a girlfriend and he sends you this kind of messages???? What a first rate jerk! :eek:

 

Even without the gf, this would make him a jerk - he knows this is messing with Leigh's heart. The gf thing is just the icing on the cake of his jerkiness.

 

Not replying is excellent. But keep the texts - if he doesn't get the message, then text him politely but firmly asking him to stop harassing you.

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I did ignore him and he hasn't sent me any more messages.

 

It feels good to be the one to ignore him and I hope he regrets his decision of not taking me back.

 

I've did alot of thinking over the past few days and I have realized that even if he did come back to me, I wouldn't take him back.

 

I know I deserve better than him and I am not going to fall for his mind games anymore.

 

Thanks everybody! All the great advice has really helped me through this disaster and I feel much stronger now and I think i'm ready to move on!:D

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