Helen A Posted February 6, 2020 Share Posted February 6, 2020 I want to get advice from others if possible. I am single now and I have been texting back and fore with this guy since say last April. It’s been pretty much full on, but then I have noticed that he has started sort of messing about with my head, for example all full on one day silence the next and just of lately, silence for a week or so. I’ve noticed aswell it’s always me giving in to contact him after the silence and I’m starting to feel a bit crazy, and like a psycho. I’m thinking I need to delete his phone number is he using me? That’s the impression I’m getting. He also, something that dawned on me the other day, never ever says anything to me on a weekend. Never. Opinions? Link to post Share on other sites
VioletVelvet Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 Do you actually know this person or you just have a text relationship? "Full on" texting? Do you "sext"? Whatever it is, yes he's using you for something. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted February 7, 2020 Share Posted February 7, 2020 Have you met in person? If not, he is fading off and has probably become interested in someone else. If you are constantly making the first contact he's no longer interested. Link to post Share on other sites
maintainsub Posted March 18, 2020 Share Posted March 18, 2020 falling in love through texting is like falling in love with a ghost! Be smart and take care of your heart. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
JTSW Posted March 18, 2020 Share Posted March 18, 2020 Have you met in person? Do you even know what he looks like? Do you anything about him at all? Link to post Share on other sites
Fletch Lives Posted March 18, 2020 Share Posted March 18, 2020 Google the word catfish. You have some reading to do. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Ditch Posted April 3, 2020 Share Posted April 3, 2020 Ever been to his place? j/s Link to post Share on other sites
MsJayne Posted April 3, 2020 Share Posted April 3, 2020 Does he live in a different country to you or somewhere so far away that he has a ready excuse for not meeting you? Texting for a year without meeting sounds very catfishy to me, or even could be a scammer. If he's fading off that's also a sign that he's lost interest and that would be because he worked out that you're not a good target and also that he's latched on to someone else. if you have a photo of him run it through Google reverse photo search, or a program called TinEye, and if he's a regular scammer or catfisher there's a good chance the photos he uses will be online on one of the scam reporting sites. I had a scammer a couple of years ago try this with me, something he told me about himself made me extremely suspicious, (actually, he told me he was looking to buy a gold mine in Ghana 🤣, and that kinda gave it away), so I knew he was a scammer before I even looked up his photo, but when I did ...wow, this guy had ripped off women all over the world for thousands, the stories were just unbelievable. Has he ever told you or implied that he's very wealthy? Or has he asked you for money, or if not outright asked for it, has he given you any sort of sob story? If so, block and delete immediately. Link to post Share on other sites
DreamGuyxo Posted April 3, 2020 Share Posted April 3, 2020 It looks like interaction with you and him isn’t so steady, maybe continuing conversations and pursuing a more serious attitude about things would work Let him know more about your schedules that way he can maybe share a part of his and keep continuing checking up on each other People now and days are very distracted and busy with their schedules so it could be that he just may have a busy lifestyle Link to post Share on other sites
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