Is She taking Advantage of me or should I stay with her

[schlumpy]

If you are not headed towards building a life together, which you indicated your were not, then why all the drama going on in your head? The relationship you have is just something to amuse yourself with. Why all the heavy analysis. Just ride it out to the end. 

[c1 110220]

 

Schlumpy, you probably missed out the part where i said "and I want to be with a honest person for the second half of my life" I guess i made other statements as well, and if i was not confused, i would not be here

Ok S2B , You did get onto a point here. Shes Russian, and recently left Russia. I can tell from her talk that shes never had a big salary before so Money means a lot to her. Shes told me that she can buy a lot of things in Russia if shes cash rich. And then here sons an issue as well. Other people have other faults, shes got this one fault 

But thanks Gaius and S2b and others, all the advice helped  

 

Edited February 16, 2020 by c1 110220
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[preraph]

It sounds to me like she is making more than enough money to put her kid through school and contribute a little.  I understand keeping the kids in school is the Number 1 thing, or should be, as opposed to buying fancy cars, etc.  But I'm just guessing she drives a fancy car, too.  So she's living for free, sounds like.  I guess that's what you get for dating a financial analyst.  She analyzed the situation and decided it was her best deal so far.  Are you both sharing housework and cooking or eating out and hiring it done?

[c1 110220]

tO Preraph The fact that shes a Communist and a Financial Analyst 😄 was never in my mind till you and S2B bought it up 

But shes stingy with herself as well, forget car, she wont even put up curtains in her room.  She lives with her son, and shes never asked me to pay for anything in her house, for her rent or daily expenses. Its only when we go out together, which is twice a week for 3 years. 

Edited February 17, 2020 by c1 110220