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On 2/26/2020 at 12:59 AM, K.K. said:

Whatever happened with this? Saturday has been and gone. Did she cancel? Was it friendly and platonic or something more? Did I get the date wrong? Gimme an update, buddy. 🙂 (?) 

Sorry , been a busy week at work. No, we didn't end up meeting on Saturday as I had some issues I needed to take care of. The more and more I talk to her though makes it clear that she's in a happy marriage. So I still don't know why she wants to meet up even if it's platonic. I think when we work next I'm just going to ask if she plans on telling her husband she's going to go to lunch with me. 

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GeorgiaPeach1

A married woman has no business pursing a NEW friendship with a man. Old, strictly platonic friendships she had before her marriage are fine.

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Nothing really new to report. We still haven't met for lunch but she still wants to. She's happily married and isn't going to cheat on her husband. That much I know. I'm just still curious as to why she wants to hang out with me. And there's another issue I'm dealing with at work. We have a new manager. She's very attractive and also really nice. We talk a lot but lately more and more she's become very touchy feely with me. I don't know if it's flirty behavior or what to make of it. Any input from the ladies would help. Thanks. 

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On 2/27/2020 at 6:06 AM, Syd8 said:

Sorry , been a busy week at work. No, we didn't end up meeting on Saturday as I had some issues I needed to take care of. The more and more I talk to her though makes it clear that she's in a happy marriage. So I still don't know why she wants to meet up even if it's platonic. I think when we work next I'm just going to ask if she plans on telling her husband she's going to go to lunch with me. 

Or better yet just don’t meet her.

it is easy to just tell her you are busy.

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Sounds like she just maybe likes you as a friend.  

 

And the new boss, don't even start thinking that way!  She's probably just an outgoing social type person and does that to everyone.  

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2 hours ago, smackie9 said:

I think being so thirsty is making you see things like a mirage in the Sahara. 

Most likely. 

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